HealingChoice

HealingChoice HealingChoice™ is a Christian non-profit organization that provides therapeutic care for its clients.

Dr. Marcus Tanner and his wife Michelle founded the organization. The concept of HealingChoice™ was birthed out of their own experiences in life and their deep desire to help hurting people find healing. HealingChoice™ is the umbrella organization for several types of care. If you are an individual, couple, or family seeking licensed professional help for a relationship, marriage or family issues,

depression and anxiety, or other challenging life issues, our Family Therapy clinic may be able to serve you. If you are serving in ministry or are the family member of a minister, our professional PastorCare counselors may be able to help. We know that ministry can be very demanding and personal or family issues can be difficult to deal with. Our counselors are licensed and experienced with the unique challenges of ministry work.

Not every conversation needs to happen immediately.Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is:PauseCalm your bodyCome ...
04/25/2026

Not every conversation needs to happen immediately.

Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is:
Pause
Calm your body
Come back when you’re ready

Because when emotions are high,
connection is hard.

But when you regulate first,
you give your relationship a better chance.

Download our free Relationship Guide in our bio for simple tools to regulate and reconnect.

The strongest gift you can give your familyis a healthy relationship.Not perfect.Not conflict-free.But safe, connected, ...
04/25/2026

The strongest gift you can give your family
is a healthy relationship.

Not perfect.
Not conflict-free.

But safe, connected, and willing to repair.
Because children don’t need perfection—
they need models of growth.

They need to see what it looks like to reconnect after hard moments.

💌 Download the free Relationship Guide in our bio for simple tools to regulate and reconnect.

Surface argument:“You never help around the house.”Deeper need:“I feel alone and unsupported.”Most conflict lives on the...
04/24/2026

Surface argument:
“You never help around the house.”

Deeper need:
“I feel alone and unsupported.”

Most conflict lives on the surface.
But connection happens underneath.

When couples learn to express the deeper need—
everything changes.

Less blame.
More understanding.
More connection.

💌 Download the free Relationship Guide in our bio to start having deeper, more meaningful conversations.

Not all relationship pain is loud.Sometimes it looks like distance… silence… or trying to move on without ever really re...
04/23/2026

Not all relationship pain is loud.

Sometimes it looks like distance… silence… or trying to move on without ever really repairing what broke.

In When the Ground Shifts, Dr. Marcus Tanner helps you understand what’s happening beneath the surface after betrayal—and why true healing requires more than just “getting past it.”

Because repair isn’t about pretending it didn’t hurt.
It’s about learning how to rebuild safety, honesty, and connection again.

If you’re ready to understand your relationship in a deeper way, this book is a meaningful place to start.

Now available on Amazon in E-Book, Paperback, and Hardcover.

04/22/2026

“Why do I shut down in the middle of conflict… even when I want to stay engaged?”

This is something we hear all the time.

What looks like “not caring” or “checking out” is often emotional flooding. Your nervous system gets overwhelmed, and instead of staying present, it tries to protect you by shutting things down.

Meanwhile, your partner may experience that as distance, rejection, or avoidance.

And just like that—the cycle continues.

Understanding this changes everything.

When couples learn to recognize flooding and respond with intentional repair instead of reactivity, conflict becomes less damaging and connection becomes more possible.

You’re not the problem. The pattern is.

And patterns can be changed.

If you’re ready to learn how to navigate conflict without losing connection, we’re here to help.

If your relationship feels distant right now…That doesn’t mean it’s over.Most couples wait too long to get help—not beca...
04/21/2026

If your relationship feels distant right now…
That doesn’t mean it’s over.

Most couples wait too long to get help—
not because they don’t care,
but because they don’t know change is possible.

It is.

Even deeply stuck patterns can shift
when you understand what’s happening underneath.

Download our free Relationship Guide in our bio and take your first step toward change.

Before your next difficult conversation, try this:PauseName what you’re feelingAsk: What do I actually need right now?Se...
04/18/2026

Before your next difficult conversation, try this:

Pause
Name what you’re feeling
Ask: What do I actually need right now?

Self-awareness changes everything.

Because when you understand your reactions,
you stop fueling the same cycle.

Download our free Relationship Guide in our bio to practice this more intentionally.

Kids don’t just learn from what we say—They learn from how we relate.When they see repair, patience, and emotional safet...
04/17/2026

Kids don’t just learn from what we say—
They learn from how we relate.

When they see repair, patience, and emotional safety…
They learn what healthy relationships look like.

Your patterns don’t just affect your partner—
They shape your family.

And change in you creates change for them.

💌 Download the free Relationship Guide in our bio and start building healthier patterns at home.

What happens when the relationship you trusted most suddenly feels uncertain?When the Ground Shifts is an honest look at...
04/17/2026

What happens when the relationship you trusted most suddenly feels uncertain?

When the Ground Shifts is an honest look at what couples face after betrayal—the confusion, the distance, and the question so many are afraid to ask: “Can we come back from this?”

Dr. Marcus Tanner walks through the deeper patterns underneath the pain and offers a path forward that’s rooted in understanding, not blame.

Healing isn’t quick. But it is possible—with the right tools, support, and willingness to rebuild.

If you’re navigating the aftermath of broken trust, this book is a place to begin.

Available now on Amazon in E-Book, Paperback, and Hardcover.

Criticism doesn’t just hurt—it triggers defensiveness.Defensiveness doesn’t solve—it creates distance.And distance?That’...
04/17/2026

Criticism doesn’t just hurt—it triggers defensiveness.
Defensiveness doesn’t solve—it creates distance.

And distance?
That’s where disconnection grows.

This is one of the most common loops couples get stuck in.

The goal isn’t to win the argument—
It’s to interrupt the cycle.

Even small shifts can completely change the direction of your relationship.

💌 Download our free Relationship Guide in our bio for practical tools to interrupt these patterns.

04/16/2026

When life shifts suddenly, most people try to “push through” or make sense of it as quickly as possible.

But healing doesn’t happen by rushing past the disruption—it happens by understanding what changed inside you.

Moments like these don’t just affect your circumstances… they reshape how you feel, connect, and respond in your relationships.

That’s exactly why Dr. Tanner wrote When the Ground Shifts—to help you understand the internal impact of life’s hardest transitions and begin rebuilding with clarity and hope.

If you’ve been feeling off, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward… this is where to start.

👉 Grab your copy of When the Ground Shifts and take your first step toward steady ground again.

If you’ve been betrayed and feel like you’re losing your mind…You’re not.Betrayal doesn’t just hurt—it disrupts your sen...
04/16/2026

If you’ve been betrayed and feel like you’re losing your mind…

You’re not.

Betrayal doesn’t just hurt—it disrupts your sense of reality.

You may be:
• Replaying conversations
• Struggling to sleep
• Questioning everything

That’s not weakness.

That’s trauma.

This free guide will help you understand what’s happening—and what to do next.

👉 Download it from the link in our bio

Address

7021 Kewanee Avenue #10
Lubbock, TX
79424

Opening Hours

Monday 8am - 8pm
Tuesday 8am - 8pm
Wednesday 8am - 8pm
Thursday 8am - 8pm

Telephone

+18063197400

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