10/15/2025
Being diagnosed with breast cancer felt like the worst day of Ellen’s life. Unfortunately, her diagnosis would be just the first of several incredibly difficult events she would endure over the next year. While undergoing three breast cancer surgeries, chemotherapy and radiation, Ellen also lost both her parents and her sister.
Even after her treatment ended, the emotional impact of everything she had been through remained. Her care team referred her to the behavioral health program at the UW Health | Carbone Cancer Center. There, she met regularly with cancer health psychologist Travis Daniel. Together, they worked through self-compassion exercises and tools to help Ellen reconnect with her body and rebuild her confidence.
“For me, fighting cancer was 90% mind and 10% body. Travis helped me gain wisdom about my body and come to appreciate that my breasts are not everything. I feel much more comfortable with my body,” says Ellen. "Now, I get up every morning and say, 'I'm alive, I'm awake, and I feel great. It really helps each day get better.'"
Ellen also expresses gratitude for the incredible support she received from her husband Remmert, her two grown sons, her friends and relatives and the countless concerned members and co-workers at the West Madison YMCA.
Behavioral health services are embedded directly in the cancer clinic, making it easier for patients to get support without navigating a separate system. It’s one way we are providing care beyond oncology — treating the whole person, not just the disease.