12/18/2025
There’s a moment in therapy when people start to worry they’re going backwards.
Not because anything is wrong - but because things are suddenly louder than they were before.
You notice old patterns faster, and somehow that makes them feel heavier.
You finally have words for things, and now those things are harder to ignore.
You reach for support sooner, and it feels like a failure instead of what it is - growth.
Progress rarely looks like confidence.
Most of the time it looks like confusion, exhaustion, and a nervous system learning a new way to exist in the world. 😮💨
And even though it feels messy, this is often the part where something real is taking shape. 💕