01/13/2026
Why are eulogies not allowed during the funeral Mass?
Eulogies have their place: at the wake before or after the Vigil, graveside before or after Committal, at the funeral luncheon, or printed in the funeral program or parish bulletin. And eulogies have their purpose: to honor the deceased, share our stories, and express our grief.
The funeral Mass, along with the Vigil and the Committal, are liturgical prayers of the Church which celebrate the mercy won for us by Christ’s sacrifice on the Cross, and which seek to apply that mercy especially to the deceased. Anything that distracts from that intense, prayerful focus on Christ’s mercy is excluded, and can be considered an injustice toward the deceased for whom we are praying. The Church has taught in several places – the General Instruction of the Roman Missal (382) and the Order of Christian Funerals (141) – that eulogies are specifically excluded from funeral Masses. This is not to say that eulogies are bad, but rather that their place is not within the liturgy.
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