02/19/2026
A Look Back in History
Before the renovations…
Before modernization…
Before Terry Funeral & Cremation Service…
There was the Ray family.
In 1936, Vance Ray and his wife, Lydia Ray, established Ray Funeral Home at 119 N. Market Street here in Madison. For decades, families walked through these doors during some of life’s most difficult moments, and the Ray family was there to serve them with dignity and care.
What many may not realize is that Lydia Ray was among the very first women in North Carolina to receive her funeral director’s license — at a time when funeral service was overwhelmingly led by men. She was truly a pioneer in this profession and a leader in her own right.
Historical records reflect that Lydia was not simply present — she was actively involved in the business, serving in a leadership role and helping guide the funeral home through years of service to this community.
This building has stood for nearly a century as a place of comfort because of individuals like Lydia Ray.