11/19/2025
Many of us are turning up the dial on our own healing, nudged perhaps by the lack of healing we see in the world right now!
The final step of healing is leaving the old in the past — truly leaving it there. Our cue right now is in Mother Nature as we witness leaves separating from the trees and floating away.
Let’s say you’ve been unwinding an ancestral pattern, a belief quietly passed down through your family line that says, “We must suffer.” Many of us inherit these old programs without ever realizing it. They get downloaded into us like software the moment we enter the family system.
And because beliefs magnetize experiences, families who carry this pattern often (unconsciously) attract story after story that reinforces it. The mottos sound familiar: “We can’t win.” “We have it hard.” “Nothing ever goes our way.” These phrases echo so often that no one even stops to question them.
When we work with a healer, therapist, or spiritual guide, we can absolutely clear the energetic imprint — the old “software.” But here’s the real magic: what we do after the clearing.
Healing isn’t about hoping the old pattern doesn’t return. It’s about consciously choosing what replaces it. It’s about standing guard at the doorway of your thoughts and catching the old belief the moment it tries to creep back in.
And then — choosing differently. Choosing compassion. Choosing possibility. Choosing a new truth that actually supports who you’re becoming.
This is the practice. This is the empowerment. This is how we finally step out of the past and into a life that’s fully ours.
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