12/24/2025
Being lied to or being lied about doesn't just โ๐ก๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ.โ
They can unravel someoneโs sense of ๐ฌ๐๐๐๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐ข๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ .
Lies to us or about us can ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฎ๐ฆ๐.
Itโs not โdrama.โ Itโs ๐ฌ๐จ๐๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐๐๐ญ + ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐๐ญ๐ฒ.
You may feel ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ข๐, ๐ง๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐๐, ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ง๐ข๐, ๐ก๐ฒ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐ ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐, ๐ ๐ซ๐ข๐๐, ๐ซ๐๐ ๐, even suicidal.
You may start: ๐ซ๐๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ, ๐ฌ๐๐๐ง๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฌ, ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐, ๐ข๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ .
๐If someone repeatedly lied to you, it can affect your perception of ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐จ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ.
๐ง Your brain tries to fix it by โ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก.โ But rumor systems donโt play fair.
๐ก๏ธ Healing starts when you stop ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ๐ and start ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ง๐๐ซ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ฆ.
๐ค If your name became a story: ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐ฌ๐๐ซ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ, ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ฆ๐.
๐ The hardest part: people you trusted may ๐ค๐๐๐ฉ ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ, ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ข๐ญ, ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ญ, ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ญ.
If youโre in the middle of it: ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐๐๐ค. Your nervous system is responding to a ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐๐๐ญ.
At ๐๐ซ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐, we have trained professionals that specialize in this specific kind of traumaโ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฒ๐๐ฅ. Through CBT, EFT, or EMDR, we can help.
Donโt go through this alone, no matter how alone you feel.
โ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฆ๐ค
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