11/11/2025
“Blood may be thicker than water, but still waters run deep.”
Family trauma can significantly impact both mental and physical health across an entire lifespan.
Traumatic experiences and toxic relationships can lead to a range of issued, including mental health conditions like anxiety, depression, and PTSD, as well as physical health issues such as heart disease, chronic lung issues, autoimmune conditions and even cancer.
These effects can not only be long lasting (even lasting the person’s entire life) but can also be passed down through generations.
Toxic relationships are inherently stressful. The constant negativity, manipulation, lack of support, etc. activate the body’s stress response, also known as the “fight or flight” response. This response releases stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline and when these levels remain elevated for too long, they lead to a majority of the debilitating and deadly health effects listed above.
Chronic stress from these toxic relationships also elevates blood pressure and increases the risk of heart disease.
These toxic relationships can also suppress the immune system, making individuals much more vulnerable to illness and cancers.
These relationships also typically disrupt sleep patterns, leading to insomnia or sleep disorders. This disrupted sleep also contributes to chronic illness.
Furthermore, the stress from these relationships can even manifest as chronic physical pain int he body (typically headaches and muscle tension).
It does not matter your personal relationship with a toxic individual - you must take care of yourself by creating clear boundaries or, in some cases, estrangement may be the one way to save yourself. Whatever you must do, protect your peace. Take great care of yourselves my sweet friends!
PMID: 24656576