10/31/2025
Something I hear from parents all the time is,
"When my child walks away from therapy or shuts down, I feel like weāre taking a step backward."
But hereās the truth I share every week, walking away isnāt giving up. Itās communication.
When a child steps back, their body is telling us, āItās too much right now.ā And thatās okay.
Pushing through in those moments doesnāt help them grow, it often makes it harder for them to come back and try again.
We take a regulation before expectation approach. That means we slow down, follow the childās lead, and create space for their nervous system to catch up.
Sometimes that looks like turning down the lights. Sometimes itās switching gears to a favorite toy or just sitting quietly together. Those pauses arenāt wasted time, theyāre connections in motion.
Because when kids feel safe and understood, thatās when the real progress happens. š
If youāve ever wondered what therapy looks like when itās truly child-led, this is it.
Gentle, responsive, and built on trust.
If this sounds like the kind of approach your child would benefit from, send me a message. Iād love to share how we can support your family. šæ