11/08/2025
Lillian Hesselman
With heavy hearts we want to announce the passing of our cherished Lillian Hesselman who departed this life at 74 on November 2nd, 2025, surrounded by her loving family. Lillian was the wife of the late Eugene Hesselman. Married for fifty and more loving years.
Lillian was born in New Haven, CT. She was the daughter of the late Herbert Thomas and Lillian (Dempsey) Thomas.
Lillian attended Durham High School and later moved to Putnam CT, where she attended St. Mary’s Church.
Lillian is and will always be the definition of unconditional love. Lillian will forever be the matriarch. Always willing to give to anyone around her and the community. Her love was pure and she found immense joy in her kids and grandkids and even great-grandkids lives.
Lillian is survived by her many brothers and sisters. Paul from VT, Raymond in WV, Rose in WV and Eve living in CT. She was also the sister of the late Herbert, Bill, John and Vera.
Lillian was the most loving mother of Tracy and significant other, Roland of Willimantic CT. Catherine Hesselman and her husband, Pete of Putnam, CT. Doreen Romann and her significant other, Chris from Chaplin CT. Teara Hesselman and her significant other Michael McRae. She was also the loving mother to the late Laura Blanchette.
Lillian was also surrounded by her loving grandchildren; Amanda (Pablo), Jonathan (Sheila), Kenny (Samantha), Mariah (Josh), Mason (Marcia), Brooke, Gerald, Miranda (Jordan), Shawn, Otto (Olivia), Emily, Sabrina, Izabel, and Alyvia. As well as many, many great grandchildren.
Lillian was loved beyond words or emotions. May her kindness and laughter continue to inspire all who knew her. She lived fully, loved deeply, and leaves behind a legacy of joy. Lillian will forever remain in our hearts. As she always said, “I love you more.”
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