02/19/2026
I notice this often in therapy:
People want to grow… but they’re afraid of what that growth might cost them.
For different clients, the reasons vary — but one theme shows up again and again.
When you start healing, you start seeing.
And when you start seeing, you realize some relationships won’t come with you into the next season.
I remind my clients that when you’re in a season of healing and expansion, anything that isn’t aligned will naturally shift.
It doesn’t always look like a dramatic cutoff.
Sometimes it’s distance.
Sometimes it’s shorter conversations.
Sometimes it is a separation.
But it doesn’t automatically mean something “bad” happened.
It means your growth created an awareness you didn’t have access to before — an awareness that helps you notice what you once overlooked, minimized, or simply couldn’t see.
This isn’t something to fear.
It’s something to trust.
This is the journey.
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