12/05/2025
The holidays can be filled with joy, fun, family and friends, tradition, and…stress! While we may enjoy the extra gatherings, our kids' Christmas programs, baking cookies, and gift exchanges with our coworkers, that doesn’t mean that these “extras” don’t take a toll on our overall well-being. Because while we GET to do fun activities that make this time of year a little more special, we also HAVE to do the things that make the world go round. We still have to do laundry, go to work, take care of sick kids, go grocery shopping, and pay bills. So instead of removing one activity to replace with another, we end up doing double the activities! No wonder we often hear tired moms sigh heavily and force a tired smile when asked how they're doing or our fed-up coworker utter the words, “I hate Christmas.” These extra activities are taxing not just to our calendars, but our bodies, minds, and spirits, too. Unfortunately, when we experience stress, it often causes us to neglect other aspects of our well being, such as a healthy diet, extra sleep, or exercise. In turn, we end up feeling a little fatter, a little older, and a little more tired, if not visibly showing signs of these changes.
There’s actually a scientific explanation for this–free radicals*. Free radicals are unstable molecules that can cause cellular damage, which contributes to the above mentioned woes. You’ve probably heard of free radicals when watching tv, because they get mentioned in commercials for your favorite anti-aging skin care products. But they can do a lot more damage than just wrinklier skin! What causes these pesky little molecules to accumulate? Stress. Toxins. A poor diet. Overall bad lifestyle choices.
While it would be ideal if we could drop certain necessary tasks (grocery shopping!) in favor of the fun ones (cookie baking!), it’s simply not practical or feasible for 99% of us. Instead of forcing yourself to “get through” the holidays, scheduling in and planning for a little TLC is the best bet. Easier said than done, I know, but if you can hit The Big Three–nutrition, exercise, and sleep–you may actually make it through this season feeling healthy, energetic, and thinking “I wish I didn’t have to wait until next year!”
NUTRITION
No one expects you to eat super clean and healthy this time of year. But overdoing it on the cookies and hot chocolate and underdoing it on antioxidant rich fruits and vegetables is a surefire way to feel sick. Those antioxidants are going to help mop up those free radicals wreaking havoc on your body. Rather than worrying about avoiding your favorite treats, make sure that you’re getting enough of those beautifully colored fruits and veggies. Aim to eat 1-2 servings of a fruit and/or vegetable every time you eat (including snacks). And who knows? Those fiber-rich produce items might just help you feel full enough to prevent you from reaching for that third cookie.
EXERCISE
Exercise may not specifically get rid of those free radicals, but it can affect you in two ways. A sedentary lifestyle will ensure that your cells are not as metabolically active as they should be (basically, your metabolism slows and you will not flush out the bad stuff). OR overexercising can create stress and contribute to the production of these harmful molecules. While this temporarily causes soreness, fatigue, etc, overall, exercise adaptations help your body to have a more efficient antioxidant defense system. Finding the right balance of exercise–especially when life is stressful–will help to make sure that you can adequately recover from the exercise you participate in, and it will also help your body and metabolism to function optimally. I often recommend cutting back on the intensity of your exercise program this time of year. Walking is a great alternative to running, yoga is a nice substitute for some strength training. But keep moving!
SLEEP/REST
If you recall, stress is essentially the cause for these molecules–one simply cannot de-stress if they are sleep deprived. When you have kids’ basketball games late into the evening, followed by frantic eating of late-night pizza, followed by a marathon gift-wrapping session keeping you up until midnight, it can be really challenging to get enough of this essential activity. Sometimes days like these are unavoidable. We can combat that by scheduling in down time. Maybe you could use one of those 23 vacation days you’ve accumulated. Perhaps you can sneak in a car nap on your lunch break. You might start by saying “no thank you” to certain activities that do not enhance your life. Or a gentle walk may just be the mental break that you need. Like exercise, sleep may not directly get rid of these free radicals, but due to the slower production of these harmful foes during sleep and the boost in antioxidant mechanisms, sleep acts a bit like an antioxidant for the brain!
It’s easy to read tips like these and mentally tuck them away for later use. Or to think “yeah, that’s great, but I’m the exception to the rule” or “my life would never allow for that.” Please remember, you must be intentional about your self-care. Not everyone will benefit from all aspects of self-care, but when we discern what speaks to us, and put pen to paper and add these important facets of our well-being to our very busy schedules, we take the first step in admitting that we are not superhuman. You CAN thrive–not just survive–this holiday season! Here’s to a more youthful, lighter, more energetic winter.
*There are many factors involved in aging, weight gain, and fatigue. This is simply highlighting one explanation at the scientific core of these concerns.