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Frustrated because your horse just isn't performing as well, just doesn't seem right, behavior changes or difficulties? Are you looking to gain a better understanding of how to help your horse and maintain his wellness and fitness? At Healing Hands, we not only utilize bodywork to help your horse, but we also show you what he has been trying to tell you through his performance and behavior. Clearer communication and better understanding helps you achieve a better connection - in turn, you can become a better team.

Tales from the Journey of an Equine Bodyworker: New Moon - the power of intention setting. I am literally buzzing with n...
10/22/2025

Tales from the Journey of an Equine Bodyworker:

New Moon - the power of intention setting. I am literally buzzing with new ideas and where to take my journey to be of service to my clients and my community.

My poor biz partner Jacqui Clarke is getting lots of texts about how to teach and share the magic of Biodynamic Integration and Rebalancing.

This is such a potent time of the year, where we tap into the essence of regeneration of death and rebirth.

For many, the New Year starts January 1st. For me, it is Samhain - Halloween When we honor ancestral wisdom and put to rest what has served but now needs to transition into death and rebirth.

This is the time when I choose a new “Word of the Year”. Words have such power and we can truly transform our lives by being mindful and intentional when choosing one to guide us through the next year.

Mine will be ALIGNMENT.

More on this later. I hope you view this post as an invitation to look at these next few weeks to realign and intentionally enter the dark half of the year with purpose and conviction.

And yes, Bentley, Miles and Apollo are all for it!









SUNDAY INSPIRATION:I have said It many times: we are not healers, but facilitators only  There is, however, the ARCHETYP...
10/12/2025

SUNDAY INSPIRATION:

I have said It many times: we are not healers, but facilitators only

There is, however, the ARCHETYPE of HEALER.

And the below so eloquently describes one of the many aspects of said archetype.

To truly tap into the power of transformation, we have to also be willing to address our own wounds, our own pain patterns.

It’s a life long journey and I have learned so much from those painful moments in my life when everything shifted.

From my father’s passing (he was only 32), to being bullied in school, to financial hardships after my Mom became a single parent, to living in East Germany and witnessing the fall of the Berlin Wall and the subsequent upheaval, all of it impacted how I personally process big shifts and transformations. They also taught me to pause, wait, evaluate, breathe. And most importantly, listen to what was NOT being said!

What were some pivotal moments in your life that have played a major role in who you are today?

Such a great perspective!
09/24/2025

Such a great perspective!

Look at this Picture - What Do You See?
(A long post for those with resilient attention spans)

The Problem with Only Seeing the Problem

Be honest - your eye went straight to the dot, didn’t it? You zoomed in on the flaw, the mistake, the tiny blot that interrupts the clean page. That’s how most of us are wired. School taught us to circle errors in red pen, work taught us to obsess over weaknesses in performance reviews, and riding horses taught us to fixate on heads, hocks, necks - the “problem.”

The black dot ⚫️

But here’s the thing: your horse isn’t the dot. Your horse is the whole bloody rectangle.

And the sooner we stop dot-hunting, the sooner we actually start seeing what our horses are showing us.

1️⃣ The Seduction of the Black Dot

We humans bloody love a black dot. A lame step here, a sticky joint there, a hoof angle that looks like it was filed during happy hour. We cling to that single “wrong” thing because it gives us something to blame. Something to circle, name, and throw money at.

But horses aren’t black dots. They’re the system - the muscles, tendons, ligaments, fascia, organs, hormones, biochemistry, posture, motion, behaviour, and more... including yes, the attitude they give you when you turn up late with the feed bucket.

2️⃣ When the Black Dot Doesn’t Show Up on the Scan

💔 Here’s the truth: sometimes the X-ray machine or ultrasound won’t find the black dot. Not because the horse is faking it, but because the problem isn’t a neat little lesion hiding in a diagnostic pixel. It’s the entire system that’s overloaded, crooked, or worn down.

And that disappoints people. We love a dot we can circle in red and say “Ah, there’s the villain!” But clinging to dot-thinking blinds us to the obvious. The evidence is etched in the horse’s muscles, posture, and behaviour. The horse is telling the truth with every wonky step, every over-developed muscle, collapsed core, or sour expression. We just have to stop dot-hunting long enough to believe them.

3️⃣ Compensation: The Body’s Survival Party Trick

Horses are world-class compensators. If something hurts or feels tight, or one side’s stronger than the other, or the saddle fits like a torture device, the body doesn’t stop. It adapts. That’s compensation: the body’s way of staying upright, moving forward, trying to feel comfortable and keeping you from landing face-first in the dirt.

It’s clever. It’s essential. It’s also a ticking time bomb. Because when the horse leans on the same compensation strategy, step after step, day after day, tissues designed for variety and balance start waving little white flags. Eventually, something gives.

4️⃣ Load Transfer (a.k.a. Force Transfer for Nerds)

Every step a horse takes is about load transfer - how weight and stress move through the body. Biomechanics nerds call it force transfer, but it’s the same idea.

⚖️ If the ground reaction force (that’s the push from the earth every time a hoof hits the ground) doesn’t travel through the joint in a neat, balanced way, the soft tissues have to fight like mad to stop the joint twisting into oblivion. A little of that? Fine. Every damn step, every damn day? Hello tendon injury, fast-tracked arthritis, anxious horse or much more.

5️⃣ The White Rectangle View

The rectangle is where the truth lives. The posture, the history written into muscles, the way they stand, move, swing, bend, and rotate. The way a horse’s behaviour shifts when its body isn’t coping: the refusal, the napping, the agitation at the mounting block.

See the rectangle, and you stop playing endless whack-a-mole with symptoms. You start seeing the story. And that’s where prevention, longevity, and actual soundness live.

6️⃣ So What Do We Do About It? (Spoiler: Stop Thinking Like Accountants)

This is the part where someone always asks: “Yes, but what can we do?” As if there’s a neat checklist, a black dot solution to the rectangle problem.

The answer: stop thinking in silos. Start thinking holistically.

Hooves: A foot isn’t just a foot. It’s a bloody foundation stone. An unbalanced hoof torques everything above it. Farriers aren’t trimming toenails; they’re managing load transfer.

Teeth: That uneven wear isn’t cosmetic. It twists the poll, skews the neck, derails the front end. Teeth give the brain important data. If the teeth are out of whack, the data is faulty — and the whole body pays.

Saddle fit: A saddle that pinches or slides doesn’t just annoy the horse. It rewrites posture, one compensation at a time. You’ve just trained asymmetry, not to mention damaged tissues.

Gut health: Fascia, muscle tone, and behaviour all go to hell when the horse’s internal chemistry is off. A cranky gut = a cranky body.

Bodywork & training: The right hands and the right exercises don’t “fix” the horse. They give the system options. They remind the body of pathways it’s forgotten, instead of forcing it to hammer the same old crooked groove.

No single guru, gadget, or injection is the magic dot preventer. It’s the collaboration — vet, farrier, dentist, saddle fitter, nutritionist, trainer, bodyworker, and your impact in the saddle — that keeps the rectangle intact.

7️⃣ Believe the Horse

Here’s the take-home message: stop waiting for the X-ray fairy to conjure a black dot so you can finally “believe” your horse.

The horse has already told you. It’s etched on their bodies and it’s shouted through movement and behaviour.

Believe the horse 🐴. Believe the rectangle.🔲

Because once you stop dot-hunting and start rectangle-seeing, you don’t just fix problems — you PREVENT them. You don’t just “manage” breakdowns — you stop them happening in the first place.

That’s how horses stay sound, willing, and alive in body and spirit. Not because we circled the right dot, but because we finally had the insight to see the whole bloody page.

RESPECT✊: To Tami Elkayam Equine Bodywork for opening my eyes and teaching me to see rectangles and not black dots. Canter Therapy Podcast just released a full discussion with Tami on this exact topic. We also discuss some seriously important insights about mares - link below❤

Cherish every moment
09/23/2025

Cherish every moment

❤️ There will come a time...When you ride them for the last time.
When you buy their feed and cringe at the price, not knowing it’s the last bag you’ll ever buy.

When you scrub the dirt from beneath your nails, their hair from your clothes...unaware that soon, you’ll miss the mess.

When you text the vet about a mystery lameness, dreading the bill...never realizing it's the final call.

When you clean their sweat from the saddle pad, pick the wads of hair from the washing machine, and don’t think twice about the routine.

When you send their blankets off for repair, frustrated by the baseball sized holes, never imagining they won’t need it next season.

When you cancel a ride because they found the only muddy spot in a ten acre pasture and rolled until they were unrecognizable...just as they always do.

And then, the time will come when you hang up their bridle.
When you clean their halter and tuck it away into a shadowbox, a silent tribute in the hallway.

When you carefully store the tail you sent them to heaven without, waiting to turn it into something that keeps them close.
When you hold onto their worn horseshoes, knowing you’ll never hear them clinking down the barn aisle again.

It never happens the way you expect.
You always think there will be more time.
You’ll wish life had slowed down, just enough for you to be there more, to appreciate them longer.

And then, one morning, you’ll wake up...just as I did...and realize the horse that raised you is tired.
That they need you to be strong one last time.

Maybe, somewhere down the road, another horse will come along and leave their mark upon your heart.

But it won’t be them...they wove themselves into your soul...
And nothing...or no one can take that away.

🩷 Michelle | Born In The Barn

News from the Lion’s Den:Apollo here: I KNOW I KNOW! It’s been a minute since I had news for you! But it’s been a busy s...
08/29/2025

News from the Lion’s Den:

Apollo here: I KNOW I KNOW! It’s been a minute since I had news for you! But it’s been a busy summer!

So we took advantage of a quiet day with Mom today and I got to sleep on the Magic Table. It’s the best for a snooze and Mom doesn’t allow it too often

Bentley even jumped on it! If you don’t know, he is pretty old. Like 1800 years or so. Ancient! But since Mom takes such good care of us, he is still up for running and jumping.

But Mom reprimands me if I surprise him too much with my physical prowess and stalking him too long.

Miles took a nap too. It was the BEST day!



Horses don’t have words, but they do communicate clearly. Some of them are subtle, some very loudly. Knowing HOW your pa...
08/28/2025

Horses don’t have words, but they do communicate clearly. Some of them are subtle, some very loudly. Knowing HOW your particular horse communicates and taking it seriously is part of good horsemanship.

We cannot develop a partnership when one side is silenced, ignored or punished for “not behaving”.

Horses don’t “want to get out of work”. The concept of “work” is abstract, human made.

We have to set our egos aside and start looking for the reasons why our horses aren’t happy. Then and only then can we call ourselves their partner.

I wish more people would ask themselves why their horse would try to bite them during tacking if they enjoy being ridden and the types of things that predict riding, like being tacked.

It’s easy to post videos where you laugh at horses clearly saying “no” to being ridden.

It’s a lot harder to set your ego aside and listen to what your horse is trying to communicate but doing so makes you a better horse person.

Blatant signs of discomfort in horses are far too normalized and shrugged off and the ones that suffer are the horses simply so their humans don’t have to think deeper into what their horse is trying to say, god forbid it impacts how much they can ride or how they ride. 🤷‍♀️

If your horse is frequently pinning their ears during tacking, snaking their head and/or trying to bite you, something is wrong.

This isn’t normal. It’s not a personality quirk. It’s the sign of a very unhappy horse and if you value your horse’s wellbeing, you should care.

When things change and your equine partner behaves differently, don’t automatically think it’s bad behavior. Dig deeper....
08/15/2025

When things change and your equine partner behaves differently, don’t automatically think it’s bad behavior. Dig deeper.

Thank you Liv Danilow for trusting me with your handsome boys. I am so glad Tostito is back to his normal self!

The last few weeks, Tostito has been giving me a hard time about his hind feet. He’s felt tense, been hopping away, and it feels like he’s always a moment away from kicking out. I’ve been beyond frustrated because our trims usually look like this…

I had my lovely bodyworker, Daniela from Healing Hands Equine BodyWork LLC, out on Monday morning for our regular scheduled appointment. I didn’t mention the issues I’ve been having with Tost because I didn’t find them relevant.. until she pointed out that he was much more off in his body than usual. 😐😐 The day after his appointment, I picked up his feet and he’s returned to his usual sweet self.

It got me thinking about how often we expect our animals to just sit there and deal with it. I’ve cancelled trims because I’m hurt, how can I expect Tostito to stand there and be trimmed when he’s hurt?

Now I’m not condoning bad behaviors like yanking, rearing, kicking, etc. Just pointing out that we often don’t listen to what our animals, without a voice, are delicately trying to tell us. I’m well aware of how hard it is for a sore animal to get thru a trim and I STILL didn’t notice.

When an animal has been standing lovely for trims or doing very well under saddle for months/years, and then suddenly isn’t anymore… look deeper into the why. It could be they are just having a bad day, it could very well be that something is going on internally.

Also a good reminder of how beneficial bodywork is for EVERY animal. My donkeys have not done much of anything this summer, and still somehow find ways to hurt themselves.. as equines do.

Big thank you to the bodyworkers I have been lucky enough to work alongside!! ❤️

I cannot stress enough how important it is to listen to your horse and to take their feedback seriously. They are expert...
08/09/2025

I cannot stress enough how important it is to listen to your horse and to take their feedback seriously. They are experts at hiding discomfort and sometimes our only indicators are slight changes in behavior. Don’t dismiss them as just “marish, lazy, doesn’t want to work” etc.

Be your horse’s advocate. Be their champion. Investigate. Explore. And QUESTION!

Because they need you to.

Tales from the Journey: When I first started my business, I had no idea what I signed up for. The skills I needed to dev...
07/29/2025

Tales from the Journey:

When I first started my business, I had no idea what I signed up for. The skills I needed to develop outside the actual techniques I use to help animals and people. The resilience I had to develop to deal with detours, challenges and limiting beliefs. The INTERNAL mountains I would climb and continue to scale.

I was lucky. I found some coaches that truly changed my life. And I continue to invest in education, personal growth, my spirituality and, of course, professional development.

But what nobody can prepare you for is how many times you will fall. Not FAIL. Fall.

It is only failure if you quit. If you give up. If you stay down.

Getting up, pivoting, re-setting are always an option. Always.





This is such a beautiful post. None of my horses were “perfect” but they were the most amazing teachers.
07/29/2025

This is such a beautiful post. None of my horses were “perfect” but they were the most amazing teachers.

Learn to Love the Horse You Have

Social media has a sneaky way of selling us a fantasy. We see stunning horses moving like dancers, riding bridleless across golden fields, performance horses doing perfect maneuvers seemingly never taking one wrong step…and without even realizing it, we start chasing that image.

The idea of the perfect horse.

That horse you’re head over heels for?

He might crib in the stall. He might fence-walk until his hooks get sore. He might be explosive under saddle at the start of every session, when the camera isn’t rolling yet.

You just don’t see it, because social media tends to not show the messy, mundane, or frustrating moments. It only shows the fantasy. Because it’s appealing and it sells.

The sadest part about all of this, when all you see in your social media feed is “perfection”, your own horse starts to feel not enough.

You focus on his quirks. His fears. His setbacks. His flaws and his weaknesses. You start seeing him as a list of negative traits and not enough’s instead of the partner he’s becoming and all the heart and try he’s giving you.

“Comparison is the thief of joy”
- Theodore Roosevelt

It robs you of the joy you could be feeling with the horse that you have right in front of you.

Every horse has strengths and struggles. Every one of them. Even the ones who look flawless online.

Instead of chasing a dream horse that doesn’t exist, start appreciating the horse that you have. All of him. The good, the bad and ugly.

He doesn’t need to be perfect, because perfect was never the point.

Expecting a horse to be flawless, unreactive, obedient and high performing with no problems, hurdles or hiccups 24/7 is an unrealistic standard no living being can meet.

And yet, that’s the silent pressure we put on our horses, thanks to carefully edited posts and photos, curated videos, and a constant stream of highlight reels only who don’t show the whole picture. Your horse will always have days where everything goes smooth and others where he’s struggling.

Just like you.

Loving the horse you have means meeting him where he is at, not where the internet tells you he should be or where other horses seem to be.

By withholding and not allowing for that type of love, due to the constant comparison and focusing on the negative only, you’ll end up sabotaging the both of you.

The Horse Center

Tales from the Journey: A dear friend receny posted a video about sensing things and how we receive and perceive informa...
07/27/2025

Tales from the Journey:

A dear friend receny posted a video about sensing things and how we receive and perceive information. And I thought I would share my response:

I have worked with energy for as long as I can remember and before I knew what it was. I even get messages from some of the animals. Especially when they feel a tremendous need to have their guardian understand something. I remember my first time when I felt such overwhelming clarity. I was called out to a private barn to work on a gelding. As I was finishing up my session, I looked across the aisle and saw a mare staring me down. I asked her guardian about her and was told she was her old competition horse. I asked if I could just check in with her as the mare was now starting to bang on the door of her stall.
Trying to get my attention. I was granted permission and when I put my hands on her, I suddenly burst into tears. I KNEW they weren’t my tears. They were hers. And then the message came through loud and clear. She was so incredibly sad about no longer being able to compete and felt she had let her guardian down. I told her I would share and I did.

That poor woman looked a bit shell shocked. I can’t really blame her. But she ended up finding a way to bring this mare out of retirement and she became much happier.

Since then, I have had many situations like this. No I am not an animal communicator. So when I do get these messages, I know they are important.

Developing my abilities outside our “known” five senses has been such an adventure and not always easy. It can be quite overwhelming and I am very grateful for my training to manage my sensitivities and abilities.



SUNDAY INSPIRATION: "If you invite someone into your home and they start breaking things and insulting your decor, you d...
07/27/2025

SUNDAY INSPIRATION:

"If you invite someone into your home and they start breaking things and insulting your decor, you don't have to hate them, but you wouldn't invite them into your home anymore.

Boundaries are doing the same thing except your home is your mind. Your home, is your heart. Your home, is your time and your life. Uninvite the guests who don’t know how to treat your home with respect." - Doe Zantamata

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