02/25/2026
Connection isn't just about the good times; it’s about how we show up for each other during the tough ones. 🤝
One of our favorite tools at Thrive is the 'Stress-Reducing Conversation.' The goal isn't to solve your partner's problems, but to be their 'teammate' against the world.
Here’s how to do it:
1️⃣ Take turns. Give each person 10-15 minutes to vent about their day (not about the relationship!).
2️⃣ Don’t give advice unless asked. Just listen and validate.
3️⃣ Show genuine interest. Ask follow-up questions like, 'How did that feel?' or 'What was the hardest part?'
4️⃣ Side with your partner. Even if you don't agree with their reaction, validate their feelings. It’s you two against the stressor!
Try this tonight at dinner or while on a walk. It’s a simple way to build that emotional bank account! 💙