04/08/2026
I’ve been seeing a lot of posts on Threads lately along the lines of “You have 20 minutes! You can workout! No excuses - you might just not want it bad enough!!”
That doesn’t work for 99% of the population.
I know because of my coaching work, and because I couldn’t consistently workout for most of my life!!
Shame + punishment just spiral you further into the ground.
What’s worked for me has always been telling myself the truth, being ruthlessly honest, and making decisions from that place.
It takes me 45 minutes to workout and the rest of my day is breezy and awesome. If I don’t, I’ll spent the next 15 hours wishing I did.
Same thing with doing my hair, going out, making content, bricking my phone, making good financial decisions, and anything else that’s good for me.
Just doing the thing saves you time, energy, money, and actually moves you forward.
And sometimes the way we learn that is spending a LOT of time not doing it, struggling to do it, going back and forth about it - and feeling like crap!
That feeling gives you autonomy and choice. Agency comes from that place. Start slow, build momentum, and see how much better it feels when you are in control of your feelings, aware of your resistance, and become someone who can ACT.
This is what I do in 1:1 coaching. Spots for The Body Lab open again on April 20. 💜