03/07/2026
Ever tried to be the go-with-the-flow, chill, non-chalalant woman? Ever tried for YEARS to become her and felt like crap? Me too.
I tried my hardest for many years to be the person many other people wanted me to be: accommodating, easy, and quiet. Nothing made me unhappier.
I also convinced myself I needed to be gentle with myself + couldn’t push myself at all. Nothing made my anxiety worse!
I thought structure with food + exercise was disordered/crazy so I just did whatever I felt like in the moment. I was out of shape, lethargic, and uncomfortable in my body.
Over the last 3-4 years, I began to experiment with pushing myself more + more with my body, business, and life. I decided to actively rewrite the narrative that I’m delicate + can’t handle much because I’m sensitive (which I am!).
It worked.
The funny thing about anxiety (as an anxiety prone person) is that the more you avoid what you’re scared of, the more incapable you become.
The gap widens between who you are + who you want to be. And when you KNOW you’ve got more in the tank, nothing makes you feel worse.
Now, I’ve settled into a place where I gotta be strict with the way I eat, move, think, and live. Doesn’t mean I don’t practice flexibility, or have fun.
I still eat sugar, go to bed late, am social + active in my life, spend too much time on my phone sometimes, have crappy thoughts, feel bloated + bad in my body, etc.
I just do what I have to do consistently, all the time, to actively live in my values, stay lean + strong, and feel powerful, capable, and free in my body + mind.
If you’ve been out there avoiding what you know is best for you, I’ve been there, and I can help you.
Stay tuned next week for updates on 1:1 coaching. 💜