07/16/2025
Menopause. How do you find a doctor who can help?
Social media influencers, including some very well-respected physicians, will direct you to the Menopause Society's website to locate a physician trained in menopause. In a 50-mile radius of my area, there is one physician listed.....me. Now, I feel like I could open my own practice and be very busy doing only menopause! Afterall, every woman will deal with menopause at some point. Every year, a new group of women enters the conversation, and once you're in, you're in for the duration. I can't see everyone, and it does bother me that so many people reach out and say they can't find anyone to help. Here's some advice that might help.
1. Some physicians are very well trained in menopause but didn't do the official training and won't be listed on the site.
2. Some physicians are very well trained in menopause, did the training, but didn't take the test. The test costs money and many physicians feel they don't need that extra certification. They may not be listed on the site.
3. Some physicians did the training and took the test but asked to have their names removed from the website as they became too overwhelmed with women seeking appointments. I know a few physicians in this category.
4. Some physicians are up to date, but menopause is not their passion, and they would like to save their time for things they are passionate about. They will refer you to someone who can help.
5. Some physicians are not up to date and do recognize this and will try to refer you to someone who can help.
So, bottom line is that you must ask your physician if they can help you navigate menopause. If they are unable to help, ask for a referral to someone who can. This might mean additional travel and expense, but there probably isn't a way around this until we get more trained physicians. This will likely take many years. Time is critical with menopause management. Don't rely on the Menopause Society as the only source of physicians who can help you. Those listed there are definitely those who are trained and have an interest, but there just aren't enough listed there for everyone seeking help.
There are lots of books and podcasts that will educate you and prepare you for what to think about and what questions to ask. Physicians in the menopause space have had good things to say about the podcast linked below. I've finally had the chance to listen myself and pass along to all of you.
Rachel Rubin is a board-certified urologist & one of the nation's foremost experts in sexual health. She shares her deep expertise on the topic of women’s se...