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So true. Crying it out and sleep training g is not the right answer for sleep deprivation in new parents.
12/13/2025

So true. Crying it out and sleep training g is not the right answer for sleep deprivation in new parents.

Many parents believe letting a baby “cry it out” teaches independence and self-soothing. Neuroscience shows a very different reality. When a baby is left to cry alone, their nervous system goes into high alert. Heart rate rises, breathing becomes shallow, and stress hormones flood the body. The silence afterward is not calm, it is exhaustion.

In 2019, over 700 Danish child psychologists warned against solitary sleep training. Their concerns focused on elevated stress hormones and weakened attachment. When babies are left alone, the amygdala, the brain’s fear center, learns that strong feelings are ignored. The vagus nerve, which helps regulate stress, misses the practice it needs to calm the body. Over time, this can affect emotional growth.

Soothing a baby is not spoiling. It provides safety, supports healthy brain development, and teaches emotional regulation. Just as babies are guided when learning to walk, they need guidance in handling big feelings. Calm, consistent comfort teaches the brain that distress is temporary and that help is reliable.

Responding to a baby’s cry strengthens attachment, reduces stress, and lays the foundation for emotional resilience. Research shows that babies who receive responsive care develop stronger brains, better emotional regulation, and healthier relationships throughout life.

12/09/2025

Mothers traveling with breast milk have long dealt with inconsistent and unhygienic TSA screenings. Emily Calandrelli experienced it herself when agents refused to let her bring her cold packs through security, putting her pumped milk at risk.

“Yesterday, I was humiliated that I had to explain to three grown men that my breasts still produce milk when I’m not with my child… Today, I’m furious,” she shared.

After she spoke out, Emily heard from mothers with similar stories, from having their milk handled without clean gloves to being asked to dump it out even though it is exempt from liquid limits. One mother was even told to sip her own milk to prove it was safe.

Determined to change things, Emily worked with lawmakers to strengthen protections that were not being enforced. Her advocacy led to the BABES Enhancement Act, which was signed into law in late November. The law requires TSA to follow clear and hygienic guidelines, train officers consistently and clearly communicate parents’ rights.

For Emily, seeing the bill pass unanimously showed how many people agreed that no parent should be shamed, questioned or forced to dump their milk just to get through security.

It is a real win for mothers and a step toward making more supportive for every family.

Love this. 🤱🤱🏻🤱🏽🤱🏿
11/28/2025

Love this. 🤱🤱🏻🤱🏽🤱🏿

In 2008, Katie Hinde stood in a California primate lab staring at hundreds of milk samples. Male babies got richer milk. Females got more volume. Science had missed half the conversation.
She was a postdoctoral researcher at the California National Primate Research Center, analyzing milk from rhesus macaque mothers. For months, she'd been measuring fat content, protein levels, mineral concentrations. The data showed something she hadn't expected: monkey mothers were producing completely different milk depending on whether they'd given birth to sons or daughters.
Sons received milk with higher concentrations of fat and protein—more energy per ounce. Daughters received more milk overall, with higher calcium levels. The biological recipe wasn't universal. It was customized.
Hinde ran the numbers again. The pattern held across dozens of mother-infant pairs. This wasn't random variation. This was systematic.
She thought about what she'd been taught in graduate school. Milk was nutrition. Calories, proteins, fats. A delivery system for energy. But if milk was just fuel, why would it differ based on the baby's s*x? Why would mothers unconsciously adjust the formula?
The answer shifted everything: milk wasn't passive. It was a message.
Hinde had arrived at this question through an unusual path. She'd earned her bachelor's degree in anthropology from the University of Washington, then completed her PhD at UCLA in 2008. While most lactation research focused on dairy cattle or developing infant formulas, Hinde wanted to understand what milk actually did in primate mothers and babies.
At UC Davis, she had access to the largest primate research center in the United States. She could collect milk samples at different stages of lactation, track infant development, measure maternal characteristics. She could ask questions that had never been systematically studied.
Like: why do young mothers produce milk with more stress hormones?
Hinde discovered that first-time monkey mothers produced milk with fewer calories but higher concentrations of cortisol than experienced mothers. Babies who consumed this high-cortisol milk grew faster but were more nervous and less confident. The milk wasn't just feeding the baby's body—it was programming the baby's temperament.
Or: how does milk respond when babies get sick?
Working with researchers who studied infant illness, Hinde found that when babies developed infections, their mothers' milk changed within hours. The white blood cell count in the milk increased dramatically—from around 2,000 cells per milliliter to over 5,000 during acute illness. Macrophage counts quadrupled. The levels returned to normal once the baby recovered.
The mechanism was remarkable: when a baby nurses, small amounts of the baby's saliva travel back through the ni**le into the mother's breast tissue. That saliva contains information about the baby's immune status. If the baby is fighting an infection, the mother's body detects the antigens and begins producing specific antibodies, which then flow back to the baby through the milk.
It was a dialogue. The baby's body communicated its needs. The mother's body responded.
Hinde started documenting everything. She collected milk from over 250 rhesus macaque mothers across more than 700 sampling events. She measured cortisol, adiponectin, epidermal growth factor, transforming growth factors. She tracked which babies gained weight faster, which were more exploratory, which were more cautious.
She realized she was mapping a language that had been invisible.
In 2011, Hinde joined Harvard as an assistant professor. She began writing about her findings, but she also noticed something troubling: almost nobody was studying human breast milk with the same rigor applied to other biological systems. When she searched publication databases, she found twice as many studies on erectile dysfunction as on breast milk composition.
The world's first food—the substance that had nourished every human who ever lived—was scientifically neglected.
She started a blog: "Mammals Suck...Milk!" The title was deliberately provocative. Within a year, it had over a million views. Parents, clinicians, researchers started asking questions. What bioactive compounds are in human milk? How does milk from mothers of premature babies differ from milk produced for full-term infants? Can we use this knowledge to improve formulas or help babies in NICUs?
Hinde's research expanded. She studied how milk changes across the day (fat concentration peaks mid-morning). She investigated how foremilk differs from hindmilk (babies with bigger appetites who nurse longer get higher-fat milk at the end of feeding). She examined how maternal characteristics—age, parity, health status, social rank—shaped milk composition.
In 2013, she created March Mammal Madness, a science outreach event that became an annual tradition in hundreds of classrooms. In 2014, she co-authored "Building Babies." In 2016, she received the Ehrlich-Koldovsky Early Career Award from the International Society for Research in Human Milk and Lactation for making outstanding contributions to the field.
By 2017, when she delivered her TED talk, she could articulate what she'd discovered across a decade of research: breast milk is food, medicine, and signal. It builds the baby's body and fuels the baby's behavior. It carries bacteria that colonize the infant gut, hormones that influence metabolism, oligosaccharides that feed beneficial microbes, immune factors that protect against pathogens.
More than 200 varieties of oligosaccharides alone. The baby can't even digest them—they exist to nourish the right community of gut bacteria, preventing harmful pathogens from establishing.
The composition is as unique as a fingerprint. No two mothers produce identical milk. No two babies receive identical nutrition.
In 2020, Hinde appeared in the Netflix docuseries "Babies," explaining her findings to a mass audience. She'd moved to Arizona State University, where she now directs the Comparative Lactation Lab. Her research continues to reveal new dimensions of how milk shapes infant outcomes from the first hours of life through childhood.
She works on precision medicine applications—using knowledge of milk bioactives to help the most fragile infants in neonatal intensive care units. She consults on formula development, helping companies create products that better replicate the functional properties of human milk for mothers who face obstacles to breastfeeding.
The implications extend beyond individual families. Understanding milk informs public health policy, workplace lactation support, clinical recommendations. It reveals how maternal characteristics, environmental conditions, and infant needs interact in real time through a biological messaging system that's been evolving for 200 million years—longer than dinosaurs.
Katie Hinde didn't just study milk. She revealed that the most ancient form of nourishment was also the most sophisticated. What science had treated as simple nutrition was actually a dynamic, responsive communication between two bodies—a conversation that shapes human development one feeding at a time.

10/24/2025

Breastfeeding has long been linked to a reduced risk of breast cancer, but how it has this effect isn’t entirely clear. Now, scientists have found that women who have breastfed have more specialised immune cells in their breasts, which may keep malignant ones in check.

Previous research suggests that the risk of breast cancer – the second most common form of cancer in the world – is reduced by 4.3 per cent for every one year of breastfeeding, with the protective effects perhaps particularly benefitting older mothers.

Read more: https://www.newscientist.com/article/2500663-breastfeeding-causes-a-surge-in-immune-cells-that-could-prevent-cancer/

Image: Svetlana Repnitskaya/Getty Images

09/29/2025

researchers have discovered something incredible about breastmilk, it actually changes depending on whether you have a son or a daughter.

your body doesn’t just make milk, it makes a custom recipe, guided by your baby’s own signals before birth.

for boys…
richer in fat and protein for higher energy
sometimes more calcium for faster growth

for girls…
often made in greater volume, so there’s more of it
may also have more calcium for strong bones and earlier development

and it’s not just humans, the same has been seen in monkeys, cows, and other mammals.

your milk isn’t just food. it’s alive, intelligent, and uniquely designed for the baby in your arms ! !

did you have boys or girls? 💙🩷

what did you notice in your feeding journeys?

09/25/2025

Why I still breastfeed my toddler and I’m not sorry.

People love to whisper. They love to judge. They love to ask with that condescending tone, “You’re STILL breastfeeding?”

Yes. I am.

Because breastfeeding didn’t suddenly expire the day my child turned one.
Because it’s more than nutrition 🥗 it’s comfort,
connection,
security.

Because it calms her tears, eases her fears, and reminds her she’s safe in my arms.

And no, I don’t need your approval to continue doing what’s best for my child.

I’m not “creating bad habits.”
I’m not “spoiling.”
I’m not “holding her back.”

I’m raising a human being who knows love so deeply that she’ll carry that security with her for life.

So to anyone who feels the need to roll their eyes,
to shame,
to sneer,
or to comment
here’s my answer:

✨ My baby. My b***s. My choice. ✨

And I won’t ever apologize for it.

08/31/2025

Baby’s digestive system lays dormant in utero and they don’t p**p. Meconium is that thick, tarry first p**p that builds in the gut and colostrum is a high protein milk that acts as a laxative to p**p this out after birth. When babies are born they p**p a lot, even over night. The digestive system is waking up and maturing. The contents of colostrum and transitional milk aid in this process. Transitional milk includes high levels of fat, lactose, and water-soluble vitamins and is different in nutrient composition than mature milk. It contains more calories than colostrum. Around 2 weeks your milk transitions to mature milk, which has a higher water content than transitional milk, grange the steady increase in the volume of your milk. As your body and baby adjusts to this change, your baby will eventually stop p**ping overnight: usually around 6-8 weeks. Some will still p**p overnight for longer than that (some times months) and that is also normal! Our digestive system wants to rest at night. Even as adults we typically don’t p**p overnight. Your body is very smart. It makes a higher water content, higher volume milk first thing in the morning to help baby have their first p**p of the day since their system has rested over night. It’s like their morning coffee. In the evening, your milk volume drops and increases in fat to help baby sleep and digest for growth and NOT to p**p. Diaper companies are aware of this change, hence the 12 hour leak protection diapers. Your milk and your baby are going through many changes. Many babies will start grunting more in the early hours of the morning as this change takes place. Increasing tummy time during the day and right before bed can help as can time and development. Trust your body. Trust your baby.

**p **ps

08/18/2025

In much of Western society, cosleeping is considered “unusual” or even discouraged. Parents are often told that babies should sleep alone, in their own crib, from the earliest weeks of life. This shift is relatively new in human history, emerging largely in the past century alongside industrialization, formula feeding, and cultural ideals of independence.

From a biological and anthropological perspective, however, cosleeping is the norm. For thousands of years, human infants have slept next to their mothers or caregivers. In fact, in most parts of the world today, babies still sleep within arm’s reach of a parent. Research shows that close nighttime proximity can support breastfeeding, help babies regulate body temperature and heart rate, and promote bonding.

The idea that infants “should” sleep alone is a cultural construct, not a biological one. While safety guidelines must always be followed, it’s important to remember that cosleeping is not abnormal, it’s deeply rooted in human history.

And the sweetest part of the night is knowing they feel safest right here, next to you. 🤍✨

08/05/2025
World Breastfeeding Week 2025
08/04/2025

World Breastfeeding Week 2025

is celebrated every year in the first week of August to recognize breastfeeding as a powerful foundation for lifelong health, development, and equity.

This year, we shine a particular light on the ongoing support women and babies need from the healthcare system through their breastfeeding journey.

Read more: https://www.who.int/campaigns/world-breastfeeding-week

08/01/2025

Happy World Breastfeeding Week/Month 2025

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