11/22/2025
We were all created with basic emotional needs such as the need to feel loved, understood, nurtured, listened to, cared for, accepted, respected, valued, appreciated, and to experience companionship.Whether you are a child or an adult, being emotionally abandoned by your primary caregiver or loved one can be a devastating and traumatic experience. You feel disconnected from the most important person in your life. This response may also arise in an individual who experiences perceived or unintentional abandonment, while being triggered throughout your life.
The first thing you can do to heal a fear of abandonment is to bring the focus back to you. You have to learn to consistently take care of yourself! Many people who have experienced the deep pain of abandonment have turned into people pleasers or people who experience codependency. Call back your own power.
Practicing self-care and self-compassion is an essential step in healing. Start by recognizing and validating one's feelings, practicing self-love, and nurturing yourself .
Learn to communicate honestly with your feelings. The goal is to be able to be your full, authentic self, and express yourself to these people. While this can be incredibly scary for someone who experiences a fear of abandonment, when you allow them to be there for you and to show you that you can open up and not be criticized or invalidated, you start to realize that not all relationships will crush or betray you, or end tragically.
You deserve to feel secure and loved in every way.
You are enough!
You are worthy!
You are loved!
Peace, love and light ❤️ 🙏 ❤️