02/05/2026
If Women Decentered Men the Way Men Decenter Women…
If women truly decentered men the way men are taught to decenter women, their lives would become the main event—not a waiting room.
They’d pour their energy into their dreams, not into ambiguous situationships or marriages that demand unpaid emotional labor in exchange for crumbs and a promise of “love.”
They’d treat their solitude as sacred, their peace as premium, and their lives as too full to grant access without reciprocity.
They wouldn’t overextend, overexplain, or overperform to prove their worth to people who haven’t earned proximity.
They wouldn’t chase—because what’s meant to meet you doesn’t need to be hunted.
Red flags wouldn’t feel exciting. They’d feel repelling.Mistreatment wouldn’t feel confusing. It would feel unattractive.
They wouldn’t confuse intensity with intimacy or fantasy with commitment.
They’d recognize love-bombing, future-faking, and premature closeness for what they are: shortcuts around consistency.
Instead of asking “Do they like me?”
They’d ask “Does this add value to my life?”
And before committing, they’d run the numbers—emotionally, energetically, practically—because love without benefit is not romance.
It’s depletion.
✨Decentering men doesn’t mean hating them. It means centering yourself.✨
And that changes everything.
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