11/15/2025
After losing his sister suddenly to preeclampsia, Don keeps her memory alive through an annual golf outing and charity auction held in her honor. His commitment helps ensure that more women and families recognize the signs and symptoms of preeclampsia.
Don shares, "I was on a business trip to southern Ohio when I got a phone call on September 23, 2018 around 5:00am from my mother informing me that my pregnant sister, Lian, passed away from preeclampsia suddenly during the night. The immediate feeling is something I will never forget...I rushed home to pick up my dog and drop him off in Cleveland as I made my way to Rochester, NY to help bury her.
In 2019, one year after Lian passed, my parents and I held celebration of life for her, and we had a large turn out of family and friends. That's where our memorial golf outing born. I decided to organize a small golf outing with my cousins. The following year was 2020, so we kept the outing to a small group of 3 teams of family due to COVID. In 2021, I wanted to expand my small memorial so more people could participate, and it was then that my cousin Rachel suggested we add basket raffles to the after awards like a real fundraiser.
As the planning went on, I knew that I would have to do something with the money raised. I wanted to ensure the funds could advance maternal health and help at risk women and help parents not lose their daughter, husbands not lose their wives, kids not lose their mommy, and brothers not lose their sister. After finally understanding what preeclampsia was and how it had a direct impact on my sister's death, I knew that our funds should go to the Preeclampsia Foundation.
I myself didn't know what Preeclampsia was; I even took her autopsy report to my doctor to ask if it was genetic and something I had to worry about!
My outing is a way to bring people together to remember my sister, and the funds we raise hopefully save at least one brother, parent, or husband having to lose someone for having a child. Please join me in making an impact by giving to the Preeclampsia Foundation this holiday season."
Join Don on and give today to transform tomorrow: www.preeclampsia.org/givetoday