Embodied Healing

Embodied Healing Annmarie Hardgrove, LCSW-R, CYT is a certified EMDR & trauma therapist offering EMDR Intensives at her private practice in Melville.

She is also a Trauma Sensitive Yoga & Meditation Teacher on Long Island, NY.

5-4-3-2-1 is a great technique to interrupt an anxiety attack because it refocuses your attention away from the panic re...
01/30/2026

5-4-3-2-1 is a great technique to interrupt an anxiety attack because it refocuses your attention away from the panic response. The more focus on the feeling of panic, the more you panic….and the more chemicals get released into your system preparing for threat. However, with anxiety attacks there is typically not a threat but more of a false alarm reaction in the body.

This technique is also extremely helpful to return to the present moment when experiencing dissociation. Dissociation is a protective trauma response that disconnects you from your body, emotions & surroundings. These techniques bring you back to now…the only moment where there is choice once you reground yourself. I use this technique often in my office when dissociation occurs during EMDR to help clients remain in the window of presence needed for our work to be successful.

It also is a good remedy for monkey mind, when you feel overstimulated with thoughts jumping from branch to branch. This technique helps you come back to the present moment quickly to decide “what do I need to do next?”

Variations:
🪷 Simplify this technique to a 3-2-1- instead of the 5 senses choose colors. Find 3 blue things, 2 pink things & 1 yellow thing around you (pick whatever colors you want!)
🪷 use either a 5-4-3-2-1 or 3-2-1 technique but find things that begin with a certain letter, such as 5 things in your surroundings that begin with A, 4 things that start with B, etc. Creative answers accepted! 😝
🪷 Simplify this technique even further & name 10 things around you that catch your eye in a positive way. I suggest using adjectives for enhanced connection to the present moment. For example, I see a wooden table, a spiky pineapple, etc (yep, you guessed this I’m writing this in my kitchen 😂).

Give it a try & play around to find what works for you. You got this!

Sending peace ✌🏻,
Annmarie Hardgrove, LCSW-R, CYT
Certified EMDR Therapist
Trauma Focused Yoga & Meditation Teacher
www.embodiedhealingli.com

It was such a pleasure connecting with other wellness practitioners at the Wellness Expo earlier this week. Healing the ...
01/29/2026

It was such a pleasure connecting with other wellness practitioners at the Wellness Expo earlier this week. Healing the heart, mind, body & soul takes a community & collaboration.

It felt fun to share with practitioners from other wellness fields about EMDR & the deep lasting healing it can offer individuals suffering with trauma symptoms, anxiety or persistent negative self beliefs. Getting to experience the light bar for eye movements, tappers for tactile use or audio sounds can be fun too 😜 In EMDR, we use this equipment for bilateral stimulation to help what is stuck in the brain & body get unstuck.

To learn more about EMDR, including videos on how it works, go to my website www.embodiedhealingli.com.

Sending peace,
Annmarie Hardgrove, LCSW-R
Certified EMDR Therpist
Trauma Focused Yoga & Meditation Teacher

Tired of being cooped up at home? 😜 Come join me at the Wellness Expo at the Melville Marriott, 10am-2pm.
01/27/2026

Tired of being cooped up at home? 😜 Come join me at the Wellness Expo at the Melville Marriott, 10am-2pm.

At Embodied Healing, we know that healing needs to occur not just in the mind & heart, but in the body as well! Research...
01/26/2026

At Embodied Healing, we know that healing needs to occur not just in the mind & heart, but in the body as well!

Research strongly supports yoga for trauma recovery & anxiety because it helps to reset an overactive nervous system.

Ish*ta brings just the right touch of warmth & gentle guidance for individuals who want to prioritize their mental health through the practice of yoga.

This class is:
🪷 Designed for beginners or individuals who have not practiced in awhile.
🪷Incorporates mindful awareness & grounding techniques
🪷 Perfect for you if you are interested in body based healing in a supportive, non-judgmental atmosphere

To register for this 4 class series, email me at info@embodiedhealingli.com.

Sending peace,
Annmarie Hardgrove, LCSW-R, CYT
Certified EMDR Therapist
Trauma Focused Yoga & Meditation Teacher
www.embodiedhealingli.com

As public figures are increasingly raising awareness about the effectiveness of EMDR through their own experiences, more...
01/23/2026

As public figures are increasingly raising awareness about the effectiveness of EMDR through their own experiences, more people are realizing it may be helpful for them too.

EMDR can either be done in 2 main ways:

1) Weekly sessions- may be a good fit for someone also seeking support through a life transition, wants to increase coping skills AND wants to do EMDR
OR
2) EMDR Intensives
Intensives are a 1-3 day immersive therapy experience that allows you to work through what is bothering you at a faster pace, without a regular appt.

It’s a great fit for high functioning professionals and/or busy parents who cannot add another weekly appt into their schedule. It’s also a great option for individuals who are already working with another therapist but need this specialized treatment to overcome stuck points that talking just simply cannot treat.

More information about EMDR, including intensives, are on my website www.embodiedhealingli.com. You can also contact me there to schedule a free 20 minute phone consultation.

Sending peace,
Annmarie Hardgrove, LCSW-R, CYT
Certified EMDR Therapist
Trauma Focused Yoga & Meditation Teacher
www.embodiedhealingli.com

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In his Apple TV+ show, “The Me You Can’t See,” the prince invited the world into his private EMDR therapy session, which is typically recommended to patients...

Looking forward to being one of the exhibitors at the Wellness Expo on 1/27! *Admission is free* If we haven’t met yet &...
01/15/2026

Looking forward to being one of the exhibitors at the Wellness Expo on 1/27! *Admission is free* If we haven’t met yet & you would like to stop by to learn more about EMDR & somatic interventions, I would love to meet you! Familiar faces always welcome too! 😊 It’s a great opportunity to prioritize yourself & interact with the LI Wellness community.

Hope to see you there!

Sending peace,
Annmarie Hardgrove, LCSW-R, CYT
EMDR & Trauma Therapist
Trauma Focused Yoga & Meditation Teacher
www.embodiedhealingli.com

**January is Mental Wellness Month!**Many people suffer with symptoms that stem from distressing life experiences but do...
01/09/2026

**January is Mental Wellness Month!**
Many people suffer with symptoms that stem from distressing life experiences but don’t categorize it as “Trauma “. However, your brain begs to differ! We now know that many distressing experiences get stuck & unprocessed in the brain the same way as clearly defined traumatic experiences (abuse, car accident, etc) regardless of whether we define it as trauma. It’s also common for people to not know that previous experiences are fueling current symptoms because the past event may seem unrelated to the current symptoms when really it’s not- the same networks in the brain gets activated. EMDR can also address irrational future fears.

One common sign that unprocessed experiences are behind current symptoms is when a person’s emotional & physical reaction to a situation is more intense than the situation calls for and/or lasts longer than makes sense.

EMDR can treat many different types of symptoms for all forms of life experiences in a way that talking about it cannot do. EMDR helps the brain digest the experience, store it in the brain how it is meant to so that it doesn’t get triggered & then symptoms can improve.

If you or someone you love wants to learn more about EMDR or to schedule a free 20 minute consultation, go to embodiedhealingli.com. Make healing a priority! You deserve it!

Sending peace,
Annmarie Hardgrove, LCSW-R, CYT
EMDR & Trauma Therapist
Yoga & Meditation Teacher
Embodied Healing
www.embodiedhealingli.com

Happy New Year! May 2026 bring you many good things!
01/01/2026

Happy New Year! May 2026 bring you many good things!

May this holiday season bring you the gifts that truly matter ❤️
12/23/2025

May this holiday season bring you the gifts that truly matter ❤️

Sharing this because it made me smile 😊 To all my fellow Rudolph’s out there, keep shining bright!!!
12/18/2025

Sharing this because it made me smile 😊 To all my fellow Rudolph’s out there, keep shining bright!!!

The holiday season can worsen untreated mental health issues for many people, especially unresolved trauma & loss. The g...
12/15/2025

The holiday season can worsen untreated mental health issues for many people, especially unresolved trauma & loss. The good news is that pain can serve a purpose by guiding us towards exactly what needs to be healed.

Insight alone doesn’t change lived experience- it lives in the brain & body. Many people feel stuck or unable to achieve the results they want through talk therapy alone because talking cannot access the part of the brain needed for deeper healing. Fortunately, EMDR can!

We are one of the few practices on LI offering EMDR Intensives, a short term immersive experience that can offer faster results. It is cost effective & doesn’t involve adding another weekly appointment! It is inspiring to hear clients tell me “I feel like I did 6 months of therapy in a day” or “I can’t believe how different I feel about something I have carried my whole life.”
**Clients who do an intensive may continue to work with an existing therapist who I happily collaborate with. It takes a community to heal sometimes! **

We also offer EMDR within a more traditional therapy format for individuals who want evidence based results while also getting the ongoing support you may need to navigate life’s bumpy periods.

You deserve to heal in a deep, meaningful way. If you would like to learn more about our services or to contact me to schedule a free 15-20 minute phone consultation, reach out to me on my website: embodiedhealingli.com.

Holding Space,
Annmarie Hardgrove, LCSW-R, CYT
Certified EMDR Therapist
Trauma Focused Yoga & Meditation Teacher
www.embodiedhealingli.com

Grief can amplify during the holiday season for many people & weigh extra heavy during a time of year when folks are “su...
12/08/2025

Grief can amplify during the holiday season for many people & weigh extra heavy during a time of year when folks are “supposed to feel the holiday spirit.” Painful emotions often feel even more painful when they exist during seasons or life periods that are incongruous to these emotions. And it often creates a deeper sense of feeling alone.

Sharing this to highlight the many different ways loss can emerge. It can sprout from death, change or even the absence of something. It can show up from unexpected situations!

Some ways to maintain a healthy relationship with grief during the holiday season:
* Simply hold space for yourself, allowing yourself a much needed cry, a slower pace, permission to say no, etc
* Practice mindfulness to emotions. Emotions ebb & flow. When grief feels really painful, remind yourself of times it’s more tolerable. It is helpful to know it won’t be at its worst forever.
* Gravitate towards people, places & things that create opposite emotions, such as connection, happiness & calm
* Move your body in a way that feels good. Listen to your gut & you can’t go wrong. If you feel stagnant, try energizing movement. If you need rest, try some restorative yoga postures.

And, remember, there are other people out there in the same boat. We can expand our self compassion practice by sending love to ourselves & others who are part of the same group.

If you or anyone you know needs support managing grief, loss or exacerbated trauma symptoms, don’t hesitate to reach out for help at embodiedhealingli.com. EMDR can help when grief doesn’t unfold in a way that improves with time. We are here if you need us!

Holding space,
Annmarie Hardgrove, LCSW-R, CYT

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