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01/30/2026

When she speaks to the God in me, I don’t just hear her I feel her. Her voice settles into my spirit, commanding my attention in a way that’s both grounding and intoxicating. I admire her mind as much as I desire her presence. The way she thinks, the way she sees the world, the way her wisdom sharpens mine it draws me closer. Iron sharpens iron, and real always recognizes real. There’s an undeniable power in a relationship built on mutual respect, compromise, and a willing surrender to one another’s strengths.

A man who is truly in tune with his soul doesn’t want a woman who simply agrees with him —he craves one who can challenge him, teach him, and pour into him. That’s why I ask deep questions, why I linger on her opinions, why I study the rhythm of her thoughts. It’s not an interview; it’s intimacy of the mind. I’m too aware, too intuitive, too intentional to give my energy to just anyone. My time is sacred, and so is my heart.

Degrees and titles don’t impress me nearly as much as common sense, emotional awareness, and spiritual wisdom. She is meant to be my right hand, my backbone, my safe place when the world feels heavy. We are meant to build, hustle, and dream side by side two powerful spirits aligned, not competing. When ego steps into love, connection weakens. But when humility and trust lead, passion deepens, and unity becomes unbreakable.

She must be strong enough to speak truth to me, to correct me when I stray, yet gentle enough to let me lead with confidence. That balance that dance between strength and softness is what makes love feel electric. When a woman truly understands how to love a man she respects, he will open his world to her without hesitation. Real love isn’t bound by selfish motives; it’s a continuous journey toward becoming one.

She speaks to the God in me, and I worship the goddess within her. We feed each other’s dreams, breathe life into each other’s ambitions, and even when tension rises, we protect the bond we share. Loyalty is more than faithfulness it’s choosing each other daily, emotionally, spiritually, and passionately. We become each other’s muse, not a burden, inspiring one another to rise higher in love, purpose, and desire.

~Darryle Hughes
Art: Instagram

Empower Wholeness Intimacy

01/29/2026

This is not about being distant, proud, or hard to reach. It is about being deeply rooted in God — so anchored in His presence that your life naturally points others to Him.

When a woman walks closely with God, her identity is no longer shaped by validation, attention, or approval from people. Her worth is already secure in Christ. She does not chase love, because she is already fully loved by God. She does not beg to be chosen, because she knows she has already been chosen by Heaven.

A heart close to God learns patience. It learns surrender. It
learns contentment. It learns to wait, even when waiting is painful. Because she understands that God’s timing is always perfect, and His plans are always better than her own.
A man who truly desires her must first desire God — not just her beauty, not just her kindness, not just her strength — but the God who lives within her. He must be willing to pray, to grow, to heal, and to surrender, because loving her means walking toward God.

This kind of woman does not settle for love that pulls her away from God. She waits for a love that leads her closer to Him. She waits for a man who will pray with her, worship beside her, and build a life anchored in faith.
And while she waits, she grows.

She heals.
She serves.
She worships.
She becomes the woman God is calling her to be.

Because the greatest love story is not between a man and a woman — it is between God and a surrendered heart. And when that love comes first, every other love will fall into its proper place

01/28/2026

The sexiest thing that a man can say to a woman is "I got you." (And actually mean it.)

Not just say it to sound good.
Not just promise it in the moment.
Not just offer it when it's convenient.

But mean it. Deeply. Consistently.

"I got you" means she doesn't have to carry everything alone.

The weight of life doesn't rest solely on her shoulders.
The burdens she's carrying can be shared.
The battles she's fighting, you'll fight with her.
The struggles she faces, you'll face together.

"I got you" means she can finally exhale.

She doesn't have to be strong all the time.
She doesn't have to have it all figured out.
She doesn't have to pretend she's okay when she's not.
She can rest because you're holding things down.

"I got you" means she can trust your word.

When you say you'll do something, you do it.
When you make a promise, you keep it.
When you commit, you follow through.
Your words and your actions always align.

"I got you" means she's protected.

Protected from harm, stress, and unnecessary struggle.
Protected emotionally, not just physically.
Protected in public and in private.
Protected because you value her peace.

"I got you" means she's supported.

In her dreams and her goals.
In her bad days and her breakdowns.
In her growth and her evolution.
In every season, through every challenge.

"I got you" means she's a priority.

Not an option or an afterthought.
Not something you get to when you have time.
Not someone you love when it's convenient.
But a priority that shows up in your decisions and your actions.

Any man can say "I got you."

But a real man proves it.
He shows up when things get hard.
He stays when it would be easier to leave.
He provides when he'd rather not.
He protects when there's a cost involved.

"I got you" isn't just about money or material things.

It's about emotional security.
It's about mental peace.
It's about knowing someone has your back.
It's about feeling safe enough to be vulnerable.

When a man genuinely says "I got you," a woman feels:

Safe enough to rest.
Secure enough to trust.
Valued enough to stay.
Loved enough to be herself.

It's the sexiest thing because it's the rarest thing.

Most men say it but don't live it.
Most men promise it but don't prove it.
Most men offer it but don't sustain it.

But when you find a man who means it?

Who backs up those words with action?
Who makes you feel covered in every way?
Who consistently shows up and holds you down?

That's when "I got you" becomes the most powerful thing you've ever heard.

Say it.
Mean it.
Prove it.
Consistently.

That's how you become irreplaceable.

~Michael Coast
Art: Pinterest

Empower Wholeness Intimacy

01/22/2026
01/21/2026

I’ve been really feeling the energy of these last weeks of shedding the Snake and the quiet arrival of the Fire Horse.

What I’m noticing, in myself and in so many others, is that this isn’t just excitement for what’s next.

It’s exhaustion.

Not the kind that comes from negativity or lack of faith.

The kind that comes from years of surviving, adapting, holding things together, and becoming someone new.

I keep feeling and hearing things like:
“I just want things to feel safe.”
“I want steadiness.”
“I want comfort and some breathing room.”
“I don’t want another lesson right now — I want a break.”

And I want to say this from experience: there is nothing wrong with wanting that.

This space we’re in is strange.

There is a sense of fire building clarity, movement, something new wanting to emerge.

And at the same time, the body is asking to slow down so the nervous system can catch up.

If you finally stop and your system immediately starts yelling “do something,” that’s not intuition.

That’s an old survival pattern that learned it wasn’t safe to rest.

Nothing needs fixing there.

Sometimes the most supportive thing we can do right now is remind ourselves:
I’m allowed to rest.
I’m allowed to want safety and steadiness.
I’m allowed to be tired and still moving forward.

Fire Horse energy doesn’t come from pushing.
It comes from integration.

And integration often looks quiet.

It looks like canceling plans.

It looks like listening to the body instead of overriding it.

It looks like choosing presence instead of proving.

If you’re feeling tired, unsettled, hopeful, and ready all at once, you’re not alone.

This isn’t failure.
And it isn’t the end.

It’s a threshold.
And rest is part of how we move through it.

01/15/2026

She didn’t chase kings, she focused on her purpose, her peace, her glow, and her standards, fully aware that running after grown men was never part of her life mission.

She worked on her self image and became the woman she respected, trusted, and felt proud of being, because confidence built from inner work always speaks louder than attention.

She don’t do drama 🎭 she does calm, clarity, and emotional maturity, which quietly removes anyone who still confuses chaos with chemistry.

She is soft, gentle, intuitive, and emotionally intelligent, grounded in her feminine energy without hardening her heart or playing games to feel chosen.

True divine feminine energy is magnetic, receptive, and rooted in self worth, and it tends to save everyone a lot of unnecessary conversations.

When her self image finally matched the love and life she desired, she stopped chasing and naturally became the destination.

That is usually when kings start crossing oceans, booking flights, rearranging priorities, and discovering emotional availability somewhere between check in and landing.

And if one of them does not make it past customs, she simply smiles, stays in alignment, and continues living her life, because she knows what is meant for her will always find its way 👑✨

01/13/2026

She wrote that women's souls could speak directly to God without priests—so the Church burned her alive for heresy. Paris, June 1, 1310. In the Place de Grève, a woman was led to the stake. Marguerite Porete, accused of heresy, had spent over a year imprisoned, refusing to answer the Inquisition's questions or defend herself before judges she didn't recognize as having authority over her soul. Witnesses later described her calm demeanor—no screaming, no begging for mercy, no recantation. She faced the flames with a serenity that unnerved her ex*****oners. She died for writing a book that claimed a soul could unite so completely with divine love that it transcended the need for Church hierarchy, sacraments, or ecclesiastical mediation. The Church couldn't tolerate that claim—especially from a woman. Marguerite Porete was born in the late 13th century in Hainaut (modern-day France/Belgium border region). Little is known about her early life, but she became part of the Beguine movement—communities of lay religious women who lived together in prayer and work without taking formal monastic vows. Beguines occupied a complicated space in medieval Christianity. They weren't nuns bound by convent rules, but they weren't ordinary laywomen either. They lived religious lives outside institutional Church control—which made Church authorities nervous. Marguerite was educated, literate, and theologically sophisticated—unusual for a woman of her time. Sometime in the late 13th century, she wrote The Mirror of Simple Souls (Le Mirouer des simples âmes) in vernacular Old French rather than Latin. Writing theology in the vernacular was itself significant. Latin was the language of Church authority—using French made theology accessible to ordinary people, particularly women who hadn't learned Latin. But it was the book's content that proved dangerous. The Mirror of Simple Souls describes a mystical journey where the soul progressively lets go of attachments, ego, and even virtues until it reaches "annihilation"—complete dissolution into divine love. This "annihilated soul" becomes so united with God that it no longer needs:

Church sacraments
Moral rules
Priestly mediation
Fear of sin
Virtuous acts done out of obligation
Because the soul is completely aligned with divine will, it acts naturally from love rather than from external commands. Marguerite wrote in dialogue form, with characters including "Love," "Reason," "The Soul," and "Holy Church the Little" (institutional Church) versus "Holy Church the Great" (the mystical body of all souls united with God).Crucially, she distinguished between institutional Church authority and direct divine relationship. "Holy Church the Little"—the hierarchy, rules, and priests—was necessary for beginners on the spiritual path. But advanced souls could transcend it through complete union with God. This was explosive theology. The Church's authority rested on being the necessary mediator between humans and God. Sacraments administered by priests were required for salvation. Confession, penance, Church law—all of this presumed that people needed institutional guidance. Marguerite was saying: at the highest spiritual level, you don't need any of that. The soul united with God transcends institutional authority. Church authorities saw this as dangerous heresy. It suggested that mystics could claim direct divine authority superior to Church hierarchy. It implied that someone in mystical union might be beyond sin or moral law—a heresy called "antinomianism. "And it was especially threatening coming from a woman. The Church insisted women needed male spiritual authority—priests, confessors, bishops—to guide them. A woman claiming direct divine relationship without male mediation challenged the entire gender hierarchy of medieval Christianity. Around 1296-1306, Marguerite's book was condemned by the Bishop of Cambrai. It was publicly burned, and she was warned to stop teaching her ideas. Marguerite ignored the warning. She continued circulating the book and discussing her theology. She sent copies to theologians and Church authorities seeking approval, but also continued teaching despite the prohibition. This defiance was crucial. She had multiple opportunities to submit to Church authority, burn her book, recant her teachings, and avoid ex*****on. She refused every time. Why? Because she believed—genuinely, deeply—that her mystical experience and theological understanding came directly from God. No earthly authority, not even the Church, could invalidate that divine relationship. In 1308, she was arrested in Paris. The Inquisition began proceedings against her. During her imprisonment (which lasted over a year), she refused to cooperate with the trial. She wouldn't answer questions. She wouldn't defend herself. She wouldn't acknowledge the tribunal's authority to judge her spiritual state. Her silence was deliberate and theological. She believed the judges—bound by "Holy Church the Little"—couldn't understand the mystical theology of souls who'd reached union with God. Answering them would be pointless. The Inquisition found her guilty of heresy. They declared her a "relapsed heretic"—someone who'd been warned before and persisted in error. The penalty for relapsed heresy was death by burning. On June 1, 1310, Marguerite was led to the Place de Grève in Paris. Accounts describe her facing ex*****on with remarkable calm—no terror, no last-minute recantation, no screaming as the flames rose. Observers noted this serenity. Some interpreted it as demonic possession keeping her from repenting. Others saw it as proof she'd achieved the mystical state she'd written about—transcendence of fear through complete union with divine love. Marguerite Porete became one of the first women burned for heresy by the Inquisition in Paris. Her ex*****on was meant to be a warning: women who claimed spiritual authority independent of Church hierarchy would be silenced permanently. But her book survived. Copies circulated anonymously throughout the 14th and 15th centuries. Because Marguerite's name was suppressed (she was executed as a heretic), the book was copied without author attribution. Monks, mystics, and scholars read it for centuries without knowing a woman had written it. Some copies attributed it to male authors. The mystical theology was considered so sophisticated that people assumed a man must have written it. In 1946, scholar Romana Guarnieri finally proved that Marguerite Porete was the author. The evidence included trial records and manuscript traditions connecting the condemned book to The Mirror of Simple Souls. Suddenly, a text that had influenced Christian mysticism for centuries was recognized as written by a woman burned for heresy. Modern scholars recognize The Mirror as a masterpiece of mystical theology. Its influence can be traced in later mystics including Meister Eckhart (who faced similar accusations of heresy).Marguerite's theology anticipated ideas that would later appear in Protestant Reformation critiques of institutional Church authority and in modern mystical and contemplative traditions. Her story matters because: She claimed spiritual authority as a woman: In an era when women were required to be spiritually subordinate to men, she insisted her mystical experience gave her theological insight. She challenged institutional religious power: She distinguished between institutional authority and divine relationship—a distinction that threatened Church hierarchy. She refused to recant: Given multiple chances to save herself by submitting to Church authority, she chose death over betraying her spiritual convictions. She was right about mystical theology: Modern understanding of contemplative spirituality recognizes the validity of much of what she taught. Her work survived despite suppression: Burning her body didn't destroy her ideas—they circulated for centuries, eventually vindicated. The tragedy is that Marguerite was executed for theology that, in different contexts or coming from a man, might have been tolerated or even celebrated. Male mystics like Meister Eckhart taught similar ideas and, while investigated, weren't executed. Her gender made her dangerous in ways male mystics weren't. A woman claiming to transcend priestly authority threatened both religious and gender hierarchies simultaneously. To Marguerite Porete: You wrote that the soul united with God needs no intermediary—and the Church killed you for threatening their monopoly on salvation. You refused to recant even when recantation would have saved you. You chose death over betraying your mystical experience and theological convictions. Your silence before the Inquisition wasn't weakness—it was theological statement. You didn't recognize their authority to judge what you knew through direct divine union. You faced the flames with the serenity you'd written about—the transcendence of fear through complete surrender to divine love. They burned your body. They tried to erase your name. They suppressed your book. But your words survived. For centuries, they circulated anonymously, influencing mystics who didn't know a woman had written them. When scholars finally proved you were the author, your genius was undeniable. You were right about mystical union. You were right that souls can experience God directly. You were right that love transcends institutional authority. The Church that executed you eventually had to acknowledge the validity of mystical theology like yours. The ideas they burned you for are now recognized as legitimate contemplative spirituality. You died for claiming women's spiritual authority. For insisting divine love was greater than ecclesiastical power. For refusing to let priests mediate your relationship with God. That claim cost you your life. But it couldn't be silenced. Your voice, speaking across seven centuries, still insists: the soul united with Love needs no permission to speak directly to God. They couldn't burn that truth. And they couldn't burn your courage.

01/07/2026

Anger is not the problem.
Disconnection is.

For a long time, women were taught to be afraid of their anger.
To soften it. Silence it. Spiritualise it away.
To call it “too much” instead of listening to what it was trying to protect.

But anger isn’t violence. It isn’t chaos. And it isn’t something that needs taming.

Anger is life force.

It’s the part of you that knows when a boundary has been crossed.
The part that says this isn’t right anymore.
The spark that arrives when something inside you is ready to change.

When anger has nowhere to go, it turns inward.
It becomes exhaustion. Anxiety. Numbness. Shame.

But when it’s met — really met — it becomes clarity.

Over many years I have always been able to access the Lioness in me but I have always been shamed by others for using it!
How many of you have been met with the same reaction from family , friends and outsiders?

Horses understand this instinctively.

A horse doesn’t suppress its fire. It moves it. Shakes it. Grounds it.
And then it returns to presence.
That’s the medicine women are remembering now.
Not rage for the sake of rage.

But grounded anger.
Fire that knows when to stand, when to move, and when to rest.
When a woman learns to access her anger safely, something shifts:
-she stops abandoning herself

-she stops explaining what should be honoured

-she stops shrinking to keep the peace

This isn’t about becoming harder.
It’s about becoming truer to yourself

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