10/09/2017
I ❤️ THIS MAN. He has taught me so much! As humans , we have a tendency to stay with in what feels familiar, even when staying in that situation hurts! But pain from being with someone who is dysfunctional shouldn't be perceived as healthy! Sometimes dysfunction is familiar, so we normalize it! Once I stepped out of my comfort zone, I was ready to achieve a depth of love that comes from prayer, patience and following what gave me peace and discerning what took it away! This man gave me peace, he showed me what it means to be a man. He stepped into my life as the manifestation of everything I had prayed for! Without realizing my familiarity with dysfunction and my ability to reason why it was okay to be unhappy, I wouldn't have become the woman I had to be before God would send this man into my life! If you truly desire love, you must see yourself for who you really are! You must stop normalizing pain and unhappiness . You must walk in faith, pray and study what it means to be a godly , virtuous wife! There is no cure all to the brokenness in the community of those who are the 12 tribes of Israel! Breaking the generational conditions comes with studying who you are and where you come from! Understanding why God gave us his laws and why we are suffering today is the first step into the most fulfilling relationship a man and woman can have! This may seem senseless to some ppl but those ready to receive the truth will resonate with what I'm saying!
