The Couples Institute Counseling Services

The Couples Institute Counseling Services Specialized counseling services for couples and individuals throughout California.

๐ŸŒˆ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐ž ๐š ๐’๐š๐Ÿ๐ž ๐’๐ฉ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ž ๐…๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ.Finding the right therapist is hard โ€” and it can feel even more daunting...
04/10/2026

๐ŸŒˆ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐ž ๐š ๐’๐š๐Ÿ๐ž ๐’๐ฉ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ž ๐…๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ.

Finding the right therapist is hard โ€” and it can feel even more daunting when you're wondering, "Will I be judged? Will they understand me? Will I have to hide part of who I am?" ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ˆ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐’๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐œ๐ž๐ฌ, the answer is simple: you never have to hide here.

Every therapist on our team is ๐‹๐†๐๐“๐๐ˆ๐€+ ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ž๐ญ๐ž๐ง๐ญ, ๐š๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ซ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ€” whether you're navigating identity, relationships, family, or simply looking for a space where you feel truly seen. We offer ๐‚๐จ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐š๐ฉ๐ฒ, ๐ˆ๐ง๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐š๐ฉ๐ฒ, ๐–๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฉ๐ฌ, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐•๐ข๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ ๐’๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ so you can get support in the way that works best for you.

๐Ÿ’œ "We see you. You are important. Your story matters to us." โ€” Samuel Donath, Licensed MFT

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๐Ÿ“ž ๐Ÿ”๐Ÿ“๐ŸŽ-๐Ÿ๐Ÿ–๐Ÿ—-๐Ÿ–๐Ÿ”๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ‘
โœ‰๏ธ ๐š๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ง@๐œ๐ข๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ .๐œ๐จ๐ฆ

04/08/2026
๐Ÿง  Does ADHD show up in your relationship?ADHD isn't just about distraction โ€” it's a difference in how the brain manages ...
04/06/2026

๐Ÿง  Does ADHD show up in your relationship?

ADHD isn't just about distraction โ€” it's a difference in how the brain manages impulse, emotion, attention, and planning. When these differences go unrecognized, they can create real friction between partners.

In Part 1 of our Brain Differences & Relationships series, neuropsychologist and therapist Robert Solley, PhD breaks down:

โœฆ What ADHD really is (hint: it's an executive function difference)
โœฆ Why "attention deficit" is a misleading label
โœฆ The hidden strengths that come with ADHD
โœฆ How understanding brains builds stronger relationships

Read the full article โ†’ couplesinstitutecounseling.com/brain-differences-and-relationships-part1-adhd/

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04/03/2026

ADHD isn't just about attentionโ€”it's about how your brain is wired. ๐Ÿง 

In this video, Dr. Robert Solley from the Couples Institute Counseling Services explains the concept of Executive Function and how it acts as the "conductor" of your brain's orchestra.

Whether it's impulse control, memory, or emotional regulation, understanding these neurological differences can transform how we approach:
โœ… Relationships
โœ… Parenting
โœ… Work
โœ… Daily Life

Want to learn more? Read Dr. Solleyโ€™s full article series on ADHD and executive function on our website:

๐Ÿ‘‰ https://couplesinstitutecounseling.com/robert-solley-ph-d/

About Couples Institute Counseling Services:
We provide expert counseling for individuals and couples navigating life's challenges.

Visit us at https://couplesinstitutecounseling.com/ for more resources and support.

Which trauma response do YOU default to?FIGHT โ€” You get angry, defensive, or argumentative FLIGHT โ€” You avoid, overwork,...
04/02/2026

Which trauma response do YOU default to?

FIGHT โ€” You get angry, defensive, or argumentative

FLIGHT โ€” You avoid, overwork, or escape the situation

FREEZE โ€” You go numb, space out, or can't speak

FAWN โ€” You over-apologize and put everyone else first

Most of us have a dominant response โ€” and it was built to protect us. But when it starts running your relationships and daily life, it's time to understand it.

๐Ÿ’ก Learn more about trauma triggers and how to manage them:

๐Ÿ”— couplesinstitutecounseling.com/trauma-triggers/

Ready to go deeper?

๐Ÿ“ž (650) 289-8603

Is your relationship going through a rough patch? You're not alone โ€” and help is closer than you think. ๐Ÿ’›At The Couples ...
04/01/2026

Is your relationship going through a rough patch? You're not alone โ€” and help is closer than you think. ๐Ÿ’›

At The Couples Institute Counseling Services, we create a safe, supportive space for couples and individuals to heal, grow, and reconnect.

โœ… Couples Therapy
โœ… Individual Therapy
โœ… Virtual Sessions Available
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๐Ÿ“ 3705 Haven Ave, Suite 119, Menlo Park, CA 94025
๐ŸŒ couplesinstitutecounseling.com

๐Ÿ‘‰ Book your consultation today โ€” your healing journey starts here.

๐Ÿ’ฐ Money, Finances, Budgetingโ€ฆ Oh My!Conversations about money can often feel stressful, confusing, or even overwhelming ...
03/31/2026

๐Ÿ’ฐ Money, Finances, Budgetingโ€ฆ Oh My!

Conversations about money can often feel stressful, confusing, or even overwhelming โ€” especially in relationships. Differences in spending habits, financial priorities, and expectations can create tension if not addressed openly.๐Ÿค

โœจ Better conversations lead to stronger relationships.

๐Ÿ“Œ Learn more:
https://couplesinstitutecounseling.com/money-finances-budgeting/
๐Ÿ“ž 650-289-8603
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Katherine believes that the thread throughout all of her clinical work is the focus on relationships. She is deeply fasc...
03/27/2026

Katherine believes that the thread throughout all of her clinical work is the focus on relationships. She is deeply fascinated with relationships and how people interact and go about getting our needs met. She is committed to strengthening the quality of relationships and assisting others to be more authentic within those relationships.

https://couplesinstitutecounseling.com/katherine-warner-ma-lmft-menlo-park/

The duration of treatment depends on how long the pattern has been in place, your motivation and your goals. Some couple...
03/25/2026

The duration of treatment depends on how long the pattern has been in place, your motivation and your goals. Some couples come for just a few visits for a tune up, while others make a long-term effort. A complimentary telephone consultation with one of our therapists can help answer this question specific to your situation. Contact us and we will help you arrange one.

https://couplesinstitutecounseling.com/faq/

Yes, individual therapy at an institute for couples. Hereโ€™s why, some of the most meaningful changes occur in couples wh...
03/23/2026

Yes, individual therapy at an institute for couples. Hereโ€™s why, some of the most meaningful changes occur in couples when the individuals focus on the work they need to do. Often this can happen during the coupleโ€™s sessions but sometimes there are reasons more support is needed. Whether you are the only partner willing to come in or because you recognize you have area of individual growth, our therapists can help.

https://couplesinstitutecounseling.com/services/individual-therapy/

Address

3705 Haven Avenue Suite 119
Menlo Park, CA
94025

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 8pm
Tuesday 9am - 8pm
Wednesday 9am - 8pm
Thursday 9am - 8pm
Friday 9am - 8pm
Saturday 9am - 6pm
Sunday 9am - 5pm

Telephone

+16502898603

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Couples Institute Counseling Services

The Couples Institute was founded in Menlo Park, California, by Dr. Ellyn Bader and Dr. Peter Pearson in 1984. For more than 30 years, The Couples Institute has been helping couples resolve issues and create strong, loving relationships.

The therapists at The Couples Institute not only feel passionate about working with couples but are also dedicated to continue their education and training to remain an expert in this field. All the therapists have trained in the Developmental Model as well as many other modalities; thus, The Couples Institute remains one of the leading groups of couples therapy specialists in the Bay Area. The therapists here have helped thousands of couples overcome difficulties and evolve as a couple and as a team.

If youโ€™d like help with your relationship, click here to request a free 20-minute phone consultation to determine the best step for you.