Core Attachment Therapy, LLC

02/20/2026

Today I will have the opportunity to talk with college students who are studying to enter into the mental health profession. One of my favorite things to do with this work.

02/06/2026

Wrapping up International Play Therapy Week, I want to share a passage I had written many years ago regarding my chosen profession.

A child’s life is like a piece of paper on which every passerby leaves a mark” -Chinese Proverb



This mark is what gets played out in play therapy. If the marks on beautiful marks, marks that enhance the growth and development of a child, then play remains just play. However, if the marks on not beautiful and actually leave scars, then the play becomes therapy. A child’s play is his/her natural and symbolic language to show the world the scars that have been left behind. These scars effect the child’s growth, development, and overall well-being. If the marks are beautiful marks, then the child’s toy of a kitchen set becomes a place of nurturance. If the marks are scars, then this same toy becomes the symbolic place where dishes get thrown, food is withheld and heads get placed in the oven. If these marks are beautiful, then the child’s toy of a baby doll gets taken care of, goes off on visits, and experiences other adventures. If these marks are scars, then this toy gets tossed across the room, has food shoved in its face and gets yelled at. If these marks are beautiful marks, then the child’s toy of guns gets used to protect stuffed animals from monsters. If the marks are scars, then this toy is used to defeat all that is good.

So, play therapy is not about play. Rather it is about using a language that the child is most comfortable using and putting this language to work. This work turns these scars into beautiful marks. The transformation of scars is the process of play therapy. It all begins with the therapeutic relationship between the child and therapist. Before any of the work can be done, the therapist has to convey to the child that s/he is held in high regard. This relationship then becomes the foundation for turning the scars into beautiful marks.

As the child begins to experience emotional nurturance, s/he then feels safe enough to release the issues that never felt safe anywhere. This is where the work of play therapy begins. This work is very intense where the child is engaged in thematic play from the moment s/he walks in the office until the time s/he leaves. As the child exposes the scars, s/he takes the emotional risk of allowing it to heal. When taking this risk, the child, in this therapeutic relationship, will then open him/herself up to be taken care of. As the child experiences being nurtured, the walls come down, more scars get revealed and more healing occurs. This process can take anywhere from several sessions to several years, all depending are how deep the scars run and on how quickly the child views the therapist as a partner in this work of play. Eventually, play becomes play and the kitchen set is for cooking for one another, the baby doll goes out for walks to the park and the guns are used for protection, if used at all. So the child’s natural language of play, used as therapy, allows the child to turn the scars into his/her tapestry of life.

Dorothy Derapelian, M.Ed., LCMHC 12/31/03

02/04/2026

Hey Fellow Play Therapists,
Last day to take advantage of the offer to honor International Play Therapy Week. Save on attending the 6 hour virtual Intro to Nurtured Heart Approach which is on Friday, 2/6 from 10 am -4 pm EST.

Here is the link that takes you directly to registration pay utilizing the discount code and include coupon code IPTNHA2026.

A follow up email will be sent after purchase process is complete which will include your participant packet and the zoom link. Questions: [email protected]

02/03/2026

Hey Fellow Play Therapists,

A reminder that there is one more day left to take advantage of the offer to honor International Play Therapy Week. Save on attending the 6 hour virtual Intro to Nurtured Heart Approach which is on Friday, 2/6 from 10 am -4 pm EST.

Here is the link that takes you directly to registration pay utilizing the discount code:

A follow up email will be sent after purchase process is complete which will include your participant packet and the zoom link. Questions: [email protected]

02/02/2026

This is hanging beside the door to my play therapy office.

Remember, discount to my fellow play therapist for signing up by the end of day on Wednesday for the Nurtured Heart Approach®6 hour virtual training. Go to home page on website and scroll down to discount code and it gets you to registration page.

https://www.coreattachmenttherapy.com/

01/28/2026

Next week's International Play Therapy Week coincides with my next Nurtured Heart Approach® 6 hour virtual Introductory Training. To honor next week, I am offering $25 off registration to my fellow play therapists if you register before 2/4 as the workshop is on Friday, 2/6.

Go to home page, scroll down to Enter Coupon Code and it takes you directly to the registration page.

01/28/2026

Looking forward to next week's International Play Therapy Week.

01/16/2026

A huge thank you to Adoption Rhode Island for sponsoring and New England Association for Play Therapy for hosting Component 1 of Core Attachment Therapy© which is The Nurtured Heart Approach®. Looking forward to our in person training on Component 2 of CAT©-The Attachment Games in Providence RI on March 27th.

01/12/2026

My friend and colleague Janet Courtney is offering this fabulous opportunity to discover the wonders of First Play. Great opportunity for new parents to further the bond with their infant. Pass the word along to anyone you think might benefit from Janet's wisdom.

12/17/2025

Thank to New England Association for Play Therapy and Rhode Island Adoption for sponsoring these trainings.

11/05/2025

LAST DAY to register for the next monthly 6 hour intro to The Nurtured Heart Approach workshops is a very affordable way to get this very effective tool to help families with intense and challenging behaviors. CE's also available. Click the link below for all the details. Hope to see you on November 7th.

https://www.coreattachmenttherapy.com/nha-workshop