12/28/2025
Quite a few years ago, long before I gave up alcohol, I would not drink on New Yearās Eve because, even as crazy as my life was, I did not want to wake up on a New Year with a hangover. Iāve continued that practice for literally decades.
Iām not one to choose a āwordā for the New Year or make resolutions.
Iāve trained and worked in gyms for 20 years. The gym is packed the first two weeks of January. So much for resolutions! š¤£
When January 2024 rolled around, I was already informed of my sisters failing health. There was plenty of emotions around this news. The sad truth is, Iād lost her a very long time ago to drugs and alcohol. She passed that February.
And just a few weeks ago, learned of a sweet friend who passed.
Death makes me think of our own mortality and why it's so important to not get bogged down by so much that is not really important.
I spend quite a lot of time (and money) on personal development, continuing education for my health and fitness credentials, honing my craft, learning how to market my services better, but this year felt like moving in slow motion on a fast train.
I recognized my old habit of avoiding my feelings by throwing myself into as much work as I could handle to the point of exhaustion. Been there before!
Like many of us, we feel times flies. Thatās why itās so vitally important to slow down and have gratitude for where we are, even if itās not particularly where weād like to see ourselves.
So, Iāve slowed down to care for myself. Integrating my own medicine.
I could look at the past year as a setback, instead I look at it as a year of learning. How to be a better person, friend, coach, trainer, woman.
The past year was not a loss or failure at all.
I am so grateful. To be here, today. So blessed to be strong and healthy. Deeply honored and humbled when people choose me to walk with them as a guide to better health. In the last 4 weeks I contracted 3 new clients and my dear, longest term client renewed!! All a blessing!
When you purchase a coaching session or personal training package, you are supporting me and my small business and I appreciate that with my whole heart! It's just me. No spouse paying the bills while I build a business. No team doing all the things. Just me. I work hard. I will not quit. Not on my dreams or on myself or on my clients.
Moving into the New Year with gratitude and with intention of letting go with love of things and people that are not in alignment with who I am now.
Peace is my priority.
I will not allow anyone to enter my kingdom with anything less than stellar energy. I may, for the first time since my husband passed, in a very long time, let the tall stone walls that have stood diligent watch over my heart come tumbling down and start dating. Iāve isolated long enough. Life is short. (there may be an application process though š¤£)
Even if you live to 104 like my grandma, life is still short.
I desire a life well lived, with love and laughter. Abundance that looks like health and independence well into my aging. Money to travel. A view to look at every time I sit at my desk that makes me swoon.
I hope all your dreams come true!
Love,
Tandy
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