01/30/2026
Some days, even when you know all the tools, the nervous system still feels heavy.
Today is one of those days.
I share this not because anything is “wrong,” but because I know many of you quietly carry the same sense of overwhelm — holding families together, managing health, working or running businesses, caring for others, holding yourself up… often without much space to exhale.
Here are a few gentle reminders that help bring the body back toward peacefulness, when anxiety or overwhelm creeps in:
✨ Start with the body, not the mind.
ALWAYS start with your breath. 🙏 Slow your exhale. Longer exhales tell the nervous system it’s safe. Try 4 seconds in, hold it for 2-3 seconds (if you can), then exhale for 6–8 seconds for a few minutes. You can sigh (loud) as you exhale, if it helps.
✨ Lower external stimulation before trying to “fix” anything.
Turn down lights. Go outside in the fresh air (bundle up!!). Sit somewhere quiet. You don’t need answers right now — you need regulation.
✨ Name what’s happening - *without judgment*.
Simply saying, “I’m feeling overwhelmed right now” with deep breaths can reduce the intensity. ~ You’re not failing or "broken". Life Happens!!
✨ Let the body discharge stress.
Standing and gently bouncing or shaking the body for 30–60 seconds can help release stored tension and adrenaline. This is a natural nervous system response (you’ll see it in animals!) and can be incredibly calming afterward.
✨ Nourish blood sugar & minerals.
Low blood sugar, low magnesium, dehydration, or excessive caffeine can ramp up anxiety. Hydrate. Try to eat something grounding, and easy to digest (cooked, or basic bone broth protein powder + water).
✨ Contain the moment.
You don’t have to solve your whole life today. Ask yourself: What is the most self-loving, and supportive thing for the next 10 minutes?
✨ Rest is productive.
Nervous system regulation is not laziness. It’s foundational medicine. 🫶
If today feels like a lot, that's okay and you’re not alone. Sometimes the most healing thing we can do is pause, soften (yes, men - that includes you!), and let the body catch up to everything we’ve been carrying.
There's a lot happening in life, in the country, and the world.
Find your Peaceful Place.
Breathe.
Be gentle with yourself today. 🤍