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02/23/2026

In Loving Memory
David M. Horton
December 13, 1937 - February 19, 2026

MEXICO, NY - David M. Horton was beloved and looked up to by more people than he’ll ever really know. Son of the late Donald and Dorothea Ball Horton. Beloved husband to Edna Hartnett Horton. Loving father to David Jr., Douglas, John, Mike, MaryBeth Horton, Donald, and his much loved step-daughter Deanna McKelvey. Endearing grandfather and great-grandfather to many.

David’s first job was setting pins up in a bowling alley in Syracuse. He then enlisted in the United States Army where he served in a tank battalion in Korea. David worked for many years at Cole Muffler before leaving and joining the NY Power Authority as a security guard at the James A. FitzPatrick nuclear power plant where he retired from happily. Even in retirement he took up a job working in Mexico Liquors where many of his friends would stop by just to visit.

He was an outstanding member of his community. David served for many years in the Mexico Volunteer Fire Department as well as serving as Chief. Some may remember him as Father Horton. He was also a member of OS200 as a deputy fire coordinator and fire investigator as well as one of the founders of Donald McFee Ambulance Corp of Mexico. In later years he also spent his free time as a Scoutmaster for Boy Scout Troop 825 of Mexico NY, even sitting on the Eagle Board, and the honorary organizations of Order of the Arrow and the Silver Beavers, helping form young men into great futures.

He will forever be remembered as a man that always loved God, his community, and family above all else.

Funeral Service Information will be as follows:

Funeral Services will be celebrated at 5 p.m. on Thursday, March 5, 2026 at Harter Funeral Home, Inc., 9 Washington Avenue, Mexico, NY. Relatives and Friends are invited to Calling Hours from 4 - 5 p.m. at the funeral home, prior to the service. There will be a burial service in the spring that will take place in Mexico Village Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to BSA Troop 825, Mexico VFD, or Hospice of CNY.

Please share memories and condolences at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/David-M-Horton?obId=47332356

02/21/2026

In Loving Memory
George E. Ruffos
August 7, 1932 - February 18, 2026

PARISH, NY - George Ruffos, 93, of Parish NY, passed away peacefully on February 18, 2026, at Oswego Hospital surrounded by his family. Born August 7, 1932, in Syracuse, he proudly served three years in the U.S. Navy beginning at age 17.

George was married to his beloved wife, Laura, for 60 years until her passing. Together they raised six children as follows (spouses): Daniel (Patti) Ruffos, Paul (Kristin) Ruffos, Michael (Melissa) Ruffos, Laurie (William) Ward, Richard (Sherry) Ruffos, and Linda (Kenneth) Ouderkirk.

George was blessed with twelve grandchildren—Danyelle, Rebecca, Megan, Justin, Taylor, Hannah, Ayva, Alayna, Sarah, Kira, Konner, and Dean—and four great grandchildren Mya, River, Maddie and Rheana. George was predeceased by his sister, Rita Barber, and is survived by his brother, Paul T. Ruffos.

Known for his humor by sharing jokes, dancing with his wife, and vibrant personality, George made friends everywhere he went while driving his ’48 Ford—from his car club to health care staff and even strangers while travelling or out dancing every week. He will be deeply missed.

Funeral Service Information will be as follows:

Relatives and Friends are invited to Calling Hours from 11 a.m. – 1 p.m. on Monday, February 23, 2026. at Harter Funeral Home, Inc. 2983 W. Main Street, Parish, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at a time to be announced from Divine Mercy Parish, 592 S. Main Street, Central Square, NY. Spring Burial will take place in Pleasant Lawn Cemetery, Parish, NY.

Please share memories and condolences at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/George-E-Ruffos?obId=47318517

02/19/2026

In Loving Memory
Curtis J. Relyea Sr.
December 15, 1960 - February 15, 2026

MEXICO, NY - Curtis John Relyea, 65, of Mexico, NY; passed away at home surrounded by loved ones on February 15, 2026. Curtis was born on December 15,1960 in Wilkes-Barre, PA to Martha and Norman Relyea. Curtis was a family man and would do anything for anyone he cared about.

He was predeceased by his father Norman Relyea, his daughter Christi-Ann Relyea, and his mother Martha Relyea.

Curtis is survived by the love of his life Karen Ladd. His children Susan Ladd, Curtis Relyea (Samantha), Karen Bertrand (Jason), Jan Ladd, Kaylee Relyea, Conan Relyea (Mindy), 28 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren. As well as his sister Billy-Jo Relyea (Dave) and many nieces and nephews.

He will be forever loved and missed by many family and friends. His family will be holding a celebration of life gathering at a later date. Arrangements are in care of Harter Funeral Home, Inc. Mexico, NY.

Please share memories and condolences at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/Curtis-J-Relyea-Sr?obId=47263624

02/18/2026

In Loving Memory
Loretta L. Gorman (Lori)
March 31, 1954 - February 5, 2026

MEXICO, NY - Loretta L. Gorman (Lori), age 71, of Mexico, NY went to be with the Lord surrounded by her loved ones, on February 5, 2026. Lori was born in Auburn, NY, daughter of the late Eugene and Arlene Jackson on March 31, 1954.

Lori retired from the Mexico Post Office in 2016 and was a life member of the Edick-Hamlink VFW Post 369 Auxiliary. Lori enjoyed her time in Florida with her husband Paul where she found warmth and moments of happiness that she truly treasured.

She had a tender heart for animals, especially cats. She cherished her cat, Igloo, and was known for caring for stray cats whenever she could, always making sure they were fed and safe. Her kindness extended quietly but powerfully to those that needed it the most.

Lori loved her children deeply and was incredibly proud of each of them. They were her greatest joy, and she spoke of them often with love and admiration.

Lori is survived by her husband, Paul as well as their children Paul Jr. (Jill), Melanie (Tim), Timothy (Jodi), and Marty; grandchildren Kevin (Emily), Jonathon (Katie), Tessa (Christian), Tyler (Amy), Adora (Aidan), Timmy, Talia, Taylor, Talon, and Zoe; great-grandchildren Sawyer, Owen, Alice, and Teddy; siblings Fred (Sharon), Susan, Edward (Lisa), Joseph (Deanna), and Wendy (Charles). She was preceded in death by her brothers Gary, Zachary, Matthew, and sister Bonnie. She was also preceded in death by her and Paul’s beloved son Steve whose memory she carried in her heart every day.

Celebration of Life Information will be as follows:

A Celebration of Life will be held at the VFW in Mexico, NY on February 22, 2026, at 2 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in her memory to an animal rescue organization. Arrangements are in care of Harter Funeral Home, Inc. Mexico, NY.

Please share memories and condolences at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/Loretta-L-Gorman?obId=47215144

02/18/2026

In Loving Memory
Alberta B. Bush
March 7, 1942 - February 9, 2026

MEXICO, NY - Alberta B. Bush, 83 of Mexico passed away on Monday February 9, 2026, at her home. Alberta was born on March 7, 1942 in Gouverneur, NY.

Alberta worked for the Holiday Inn and Murphy’s Restaurant. She enjoyed working, camping, berry picking, baking, cooking, and sewing. She was famous for her 'Crabhold'. She most of all enjoyed spending time with her husband, Vernon.

Alberta was a member of the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses in Fulton, NY.

Alberta is predeceased by her two sons, Keith and Vernon Jr. and a granddaughter, Dina.

Alberta is survived by her husband of 64 years, Vernon Bush and her two daughters, Donna Stevenson and Tammy Emery; 15 grandchildren, 18 great-grandchildren, 2 great-great grandchildren; her sister, Janie Schepard and brother, Dewey Van Ornum.

Funeral Service Information will be as follows:

Funeral Services will be celebrated at 2 p.m. on Saturday February 21, 2026 at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses in Fulton, NY. Arrangements are in care of Harter Funeral Home, Inc. Mexico, NY.

Please share memories and condolences at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/Alberta-B-Bush?obId=47276682

02/14/2026

In Loving Memory
Rebecca Dawn Harrington
January 21, 1936 – February 10, 2026

Pennellville, NY - Rebecca Dawn Harrington, 90, of Pennellville, NY, passed away on Tuesday February 10, 2026, at Community General Hospital. Rebecca was born in Syracuse, NY on January 21, 1936, daughter of the late Clarence and Emma E. King Hughson. Rebecca grew up in Cicero, NY, and was a 1953 graduate of North Syracuse High School.

Rebecca married Richard J. Harrington in the Central Square Baptist Church on March 29, 1954. Rebecca was a home health aide for VNA of Central New York. Rebecca grew up in the Clay Lutheran Church and joined the Roosevelt Seventh Day Adventist Church in 1981.

Rebecca is predeceased by her husband, Richard J. Harrington in 2016; her son, Richard R. Harrington in 1979 and her three great grandchildren, Alex, Haden and Evangeline.

Rebecca is survived by her two daughters, Rosamond Denise (Jeffrey) Kline and Bonnie Renee (Richard) Kaszubinski; six grandchildren; 21 great grandchildren; her sister, Inez (Harold) Baker and her brother Merle (Mary) Hughson.

Funeral Service Information will be as follows:

Funeral Services will be celebrated at 12 p.m. on Monday, February 16, 2025. from Harter Funeral Home, Inc. 9525 S. Main Street Brewerton, NY. Relatives and Friends are invited to Calling Hours from 10 a.m. – 12 p.m. at the funeral home, prior to the service. Rebecca will be laid to rest in Pine Plains Cemetery, Clay, NY.

Please share memories and condolences at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/Rebecca-Dawn-Harrington?obId=47252472

02/10/2026

Celebrating the life of Nancie Walter

02/09/2026

In Loving Memory
Nancie A. (Malcolm) Walter
December 26, 1944 - February 3, 2026

ALTMAR, NY - Nancie A. (Malcolm) Walter, 81, of Altmar NY, passed away on Tuesday, February 3, 2026 at her home, surrounded by her family. Nancie was born in Fairport NY, daughter of the late Harry and Dorothy Shoemaker Malcolm.

Nancie retired from Oswego County BOCES working from 1996 to 2001. She also worked for Maross Construction for many years. Nancie was a lifetime member of the Sandy Pond Sportsman Club and a lifetime member of the VFW Post 369 Ladies Auxiliary. Nancie was an active member and supporter of the Honor Flight of Syracuse and the APW Sports Booster Club.

Nancie is predeceased by her first husband, David M. Walter and one son in law Casey Brouse.

Nancie is survived by her husband Donald F. Hildreth; her children, Leslie Lynn (Barry) Richards and her children Allie and Jay; Kristina Marie Brouse and her children Sydney, Ainsley and Cooper; David Aaron (Brenda) Walter; C. Jason Walter and his children Isabella, Gavin and Aiden; her brother, Richard Malcolm; her niece, Dawn Malcolm; her nephew Christopher Malcolm and her niece, Susan (Brenda) Walter.

Funeral Service Information will be as follows:

Funeral Services will be celebrated at 6 p.m. on Tuesday, February 10, 2025. from Harter Funeral Home, Inc. 2983 W. Main Street, Parish, NY. Relatives and Friends are invited to Calling Hours from 5 – 6 p.m. at the funeral home prior to the service. Spring Burial will take place in Pleasant Lawn Cemetery.

Please share memories and condolences at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/Nancie-A-Walter?obId=47185080

02/09/2026

In Loving Memory
Tracey L. Tilkins
October 24, 1960 - February 5, 2026

RICHLAND, NY - Tracey L. Tilkins, 65, of Richland, NY; passed away on Thursday, February 5, 2026, at Upstate University Hospital, in Syracuse, NY. She was born on October 24, 1960, daughter of the late Walter and Elizabeth Carr.

She loved to do crafts, she loved being with her family and having cookouts, she made impact on everyone's life. She cherished her children and being a mother.

She was pre-deceased by her husband, Rodney Tilkins; daughters, Carrie Ann Carr and Susan House; granddaughters, Mataiyo Schroeder, Laelynn Tilkin and Dahlila White; and her sister, Debrah Carr.

Tracey is survived by her children, Hope (Mark) Carr, Lee Carr, Ann La Breck (Amber Mesler), Amber (Tim) Krowicki, Miranda House (Charles Cottet), John Tilkins, Dan Tilkins, Ed Tilkins, Tamara (Vardon) Taplin, Ed Stevens and Stephanie Tilkins; 32 grandchildren, five great-grandchildren, siblings, Chuck (Debbie) Carr, Mike Carr, Tim (Mary) Carr, Walter (Laurie) Carr and Valerie Carr.

Funeral Service Information will be as Follows:

Funeral Services will be celebrated at 1 p.m. Wednesday, February 11, 2026, from Harter Funeral Home, Inc. Parish, NY. Relatives and Friends are invited to a Calling Hour from 12 - 1 p.m. at the funeral home, prior to the service. Spring Burial will be in Richland Cemetery.

Please share memories and condolences at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/Tracey-L-Tilkins?obId=47205511

02/05/2026

In Loving Memory
Kyle Jennings Clark
June 17, 1985 - January 25, 2026

MEXICO, NY - It is with profound heartbreak that the family of Kyle J. Clark, age 40, announces his unexpected and tragic passing on January 25, 2026. Born on June 17, 1985 in Oswego, NY, Kyle was a cherished son to Randy C. Clark and Debra J. Heagerty and a beloved brother to Kaitlyn N. Green.

Kyle was a kind soul known for his generosity, kindness, giant heart, incredible sense of humor, and his amazing memory. He was passionate about racing, snowmobiling, boating, watching Michigan football, and spending time with his son. His life, while cut far too short, was full of love for his friends and family.

Kyle enjoyed watching NASCAR with his father growing up, and attending races at the Oswego Speedway. He had many racetracks and model race cars in the house as a boy and even went on to race in a few stock car races at the Oswego Speedway. In more recent years, Kyle worked on the pit crew of Chad Phelps racing. He loved the racing scene.

Kyle graduated from Mexico Academy and Central Schools in 2003 and pursued some college credits at Cayuga Community College.

Kyle was employed by the Birdseye Plant in Fulton as a forklift operator until they closed down. He was most recently employed by the James A. Fitzpatrick Nuclear Power Plant as a Security Guard.

Kyle was preceded in death by his father, Randy C. Clark; step father, Paul J. Heagerty; grandparents, Owen and Shirley Clark, Ralph Jennings, and June Hansen (Mogens). He is survived by his son, Tucker J. Clark; his mother, Debra J. Heagerty; his sister, Kaitlyn N. Green (Jacob); his stepbrother, Paul N. Heagerty; his nephews, Curtis J. Wright and Alexander R. Wright; and his beloved niece, Emma C. Green; his grandmother, Beverly Jones; as well as several aunts and uncles.

Kyle was a large presence and had a sense of humor just as big. He had many friends who have been so good to him over the years. He loved his son Tucker more than anything and was so proud of him on the soccer ﬁeld and in many other ways. He loved his nephews and his niece and was full of smiles when they stopped in for a visit.

The family would like to thank the ﬁrst responders who went above and beyond to try and save him.

A Graveside Service and Celebration of Life will be held in his hometown of Mexico, NY at a later date. We encourage everyone to bring a photo or story to share.

Arrangements are in care of Harter Funeral Home, Inc. Mexico, NY.

Please share memories and condolences at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/Kyle-Jennings-Clark?obId=47185012

02/03/2026

In Loving Memory
John K. Sikes, Sr.
June 29, 1947 - January 30, 2026

MEXICO, NY – John K. Sikes, Sr. 78, of Mexico, NY; passed away on Friday, January 30, 2026; at his home, surrounded by his loving family. He was born in Fulton, NY, on June 29, 1947, to the late John E. and Flora Bracy Sikes.

John was a Meat Cutter who owned Sikes Meat Processing with his wife, Cynthia, for 42 years. He was a lifetime member of the Edick – Hamlink VFW Post #369 in Mexico, NY.

He was predeceased by his sister, Dianne Sikes.

John is survived by his loving wife of 47 years, Cynthina (Cottrill) Sikes; his son, John (Kim) Sikes, Jr.; two daughters, Kelley (James) Henderson and Krystal (Cory Lawyer) Rasbeck; seven grandchildren, James, Jessica, Amanda, Kyle, Tyler, Peyton and Jonathon; seven great-grandchildren; three brothers, Frederick Sikes, Thomas Sikes and Gary Sikes; along with several nieces and nephews.

Funeral Services will be celebrated at 6 p.m. on Wednesday, February 4, 2026, from Harter Funeral Home, Inc. 9 Washington Ave. Mexico, NY. Spring Burial will be in North Vonley Cemetery. Relatives and Friends are invited to Calling Hours from 4 – 6 p.m. at the funeral home, prior to the service.

Please share memories at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/John-K-Sikes-Sr?obId=47163180

01/20/2026

In Loving Memory
James E. Phillips
December 28, 1941 - January 19, 2026

WILLIAMSTOWN, NY - James E. Phillips, 84 of Williamstown, NY; passed away Monday, January 19, 2026, at Bassett Hospital in Cooperstown, NY. Jim was born on December 28, 1941 in Williamstown, NY; son of the late Elton and Nellie Allen Phillips. He was a member and board member of the Williamstown Union Church.

Jim worked for Camden Wire for 28 years and Omega Wire for 15 years. He retired from the Town of Williamstown Department of Transportation. Jim was a member of the Williamstown Volunteer Fire Department since 1962 and a member of the Fairview Cemetery Association for 25 years. Jim was a charter member of N.O.C.A. Jim was a member of the John Deere Club and the New York State Antique Tractor Association.

Jim is survived by his daughter, Jamie M. Phillips; his brother, Henry (Linda) Phillips and nephew, Steven Phillips.

Funeral Services will be celebrated at 5 p.m. on Thursday, January 22, 2026 from Harter Funeral Home, Inc. 2983 W. Main Street Parish, NY. Relatives and Friends are invited to a Calling Hour from 4 - 5 p.m. at the funeral home, prior to the service. Spring burial will take place in Fairview Cemetery, Williamstown, NY.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution in Jim's Memory to the Williamstown Volunteer Fire Department, 575 NY-13, Williamstown, NY, 13493.

Please share memories and condolences at https://www.harterfuneralhome.com/obituaries/James-E-Phillips?obId=46999037

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Hello and Welcome. We are Harter Funeral Home, Inc. We are three seventh generation family owned and operated funeral homes and cremation services. Established in 1836 in Parish, NY, Issac Harter created and opened the Harter Funeral Service. 184 years later we now include locations in Parish, Mexico and Brewerton, NY dedicated to serving the families of our communities with timeless and meaningful funeral and cremation services. It is our goal to serve each family with the same caring, compassionate, professional service regardless of your service preference or budget. Our family works diligently to provide service that exceeds the expectations of the families we serve, facilities that are comfortable, welcoming and well cared for, and to mix our eye for innovation with the traditional and new age funeral customs we see today. Our team is available to you around the clock, 365 days a year. Family owned and operated is at the core of who we are and our family is very proud to be able to care for yours and pledges to do so, for years to come. Should you ever have any questions about our funeral homes or the services we provide, we invite you to please contact us.

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