Dr. Mindy: Helping you live your best s*x life. Here you will find tips, ideas, and strategies to help you live your best relationship with a thriving s*x life.
04/29/2026
For most women, arousal doesn’t just show up on command…they have to create the environment for it. Key factors in getting turned on are feeling confident, s*xy, and relaxed yet for so many women those feelings seem impossible to achieve with the stress and mental load of real life.
Last night, and I hosted a women’s evening in Miami dedicated to helping women feel more empowered in their pleasure and more emotionally connected in their relationships.
We talked about what helps desire build, how to ask for what you want, and how to bring more romance (and ease) back into partnership.
One of the most powerful parts: everyone responded to prompt anonymously. That anonymity gave women permission to be real, raw, honest, and surprisingly brave. And the conversation that followed? Deep. Bonding. And so validating.
Swipe to see the garden night + a few of the prompts we explored. Want to come to a future women’s event? DM me and I’ll send you the upcoming dates.
04/14/2026
As a s*x therapist, I’m very pro kegel balls. They can support your pelvic floor in ways that impact your body, your pleasure, and your confidence. Psychology Today just shared my newest article on the Top 5 Benefits of Kegel Balls - here’s the quick version:
1. Stronger core + better posture
Your pelvic floor is part of your core. Training it can help you feel more stable and “stand taller.”
2. More s*xual pleasure
More tone + control can mean stronger sensations, better blood flow, and more confident or***ms.
3. Better bladder control (not just postpartum)
If you avoid jumping jacks “just in case,” pelvic floor training can be a game-changer at any stage of life.
4. Better sleep
Less pelvic floor tension + more “rest and digest” nervous system activation can make it easier to wind down.
5. More confidence, period
Feeling stronger and more connected to your body tends to ripple into everything—self-esteem, intimacy, and daily life.
Want the full breakdown? Read it on Psychology Today .
04/12/2026
D*ck pics don’t have to be unattractive! Rachel Varina paves the way on how to take a s*xy welcomed d*ck pic in her Cosmopolitan article. I loved being one of your experts on this journey. Let’s hope these tips can change the culture of d*ck pics all together. You’re welcome receivers! 💋💋
04/12/2026
Dr. Mindy’s specially drinks!
04/12/2026
Peri menopause, low libidos, and anxiety during s*x were all hot topics at the training today. My Scottsdale weekend was filled with in store Fascinations - Shop in store! events were I was able to discuss how toys, kink products, and l**e can bridge the gap between s*xual challenges and desiring to have the pleasure they crave.
04/11/2026
I spent the evening with Fascinations - Shop in store!! As shoppers partied in the store they each had the opportunity to sit down with me and ask all their “s*xy” questions. The Dr Mindy specialty drinks flowed all night! Mine favorite was the Minty Mindy! Thanks to Xgen Products The Rabbit Company and The Bodywand for making this party happen!
04/07/2026
My favorite nights are the most intimate ones! Women crave the ability to step out of their daily roles and sit down at a table (with a little wine) to discuss s*x. Women heal though conversation, normalizing challenges, and learning they have a support system. I was honored to lead Mysha through an intimate evening where the women opened up about their s*x lives. My role as Dr Mindy was to help guide them on how to live their best s*x lives. And of course, if you ever attend any of my events, you know there are always give aways! Thank you The Bodywand and The Rabbit Company for donating such luxurious vibes!
04/02/2026
Beyond Vanilla 101 was a couples workshop I co-hosted with the absolute s*xiest do******ix in Miami Neena De Ville. This night was a playful, beginner friendly evening that began with a champagne toast, learning how to have the “S*x Talk”, and exploring how to push their boundaries! Neena De Ville took it to the next level! She provided hands on training in bo***ge basics, how to give your partner that mind blowing “O” with just their fingertips, and simple ways to bring toys into the mix without it feeling awkward or intimidating.
Always remember, at the heart of kink there is connection, emotional trust, and play. Couples left this event feeling emotionally more connected to their partner, excited about new discoveries, and a luxury goodie bag filled with The Rabbit Company and The Bodywand body safe silicone vibes!
04/01/2026
Yes, this is the s*xiest dungeon in Miami! Kink has a wider definition than most of us default to. It is deeply bonding. It’s not just about bo***ge, domination, or pain. At its core it is about connection, touch, and feeling complement emotionally and physically safe in the moment. Most people feel they are “just not kinky” but in reality a spanking or a loving bite to the shoulder all falls under the kink umbrella.
03/17/2026
Many couples start s*x therapy by saying, “but we love each other”. I hate to break it to you… love only starts it, it won’t sustain a relationship.
A fun, long-lasting relationship takes skill. Happy couples are not lucky, they learned the skills that are required to make a relationship last. It’s not just about choosing the “right” person, it’s about learning how to create, sustain, and grow a lasting relationship.
Below I have listed a few of the most essential skills couples must learn to make a relationship last:
❤️ Discuss emotional + physical intimacy: The way couples connect, emotionally and s*xually, changes as you move through different phases of life. Healthy couples have the trust and the words to talk about what they need, what feels good, and how connection evolves over time.
💋 Earn and learn your partner every day: It’s easy to get swallowed by the day-to-day logistics of running a life together. That’s often where emotional distance starts. Make it a daily practice to earn your partner’s love and respect. Stay curious about who they’re becoming. Talk about things beyond money and the to-do list.
❤️ Teamwork: Life is hard and it’s not always fair. You need a teammate, someone you can lean on and problem-solve with, so you’re facing challenges together.
💋 Stay autonomous: It’s easy to lose your identity along the way, especially if you’re the primary caregiver. Embrace your independence and sense of self. Autonomy isn’t the enemy of closeness, it actually builds secure attachment, confidence, and deeper trust.
02/09/2026
If you are here for s*xy advice, you have come to the right page! ABOUT ME: I’m Dr. Mindy DeSeta, Doctor of Human Sexuality. For the past 10 years I have been helping people live their best s*x lives, and I love doing it!
My seggs therapy work, is just an extension of who I am!
Here is a little glimpse into my professional journey:
💋 Not only do I offer s*x therapy, but I am also a hypnotherapist. Hypnosis is extremely beneficial in helping clients overcome erectile dysfunction, low libido, and premature ej*******on along with many other seggs issues
💋 I am the Sexuality Educator at : helping people find their match
💋 My expertise is often featured in major publications such as and many others
💋 Read my seggs advice column on
💋 brand sponsored by )the largest adult product manufacture)
💋 Stay tuned for my book on how to talk to your kids about p**n
02/06/2026
I’m so honored to be featured in . Cosmo has been a “go to” for generations of women, with articles that empower readers to embrace their s*xuality, femininity, and confidence. I’m grateful to be quoted in their Expert Approved piece on s*xting tips + ideas. you absolutely nailed this piece and truly captured the art of s*xting! If you are looking for ways to start a steamy s*xting sesh, read this article!
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