02/07/2026
The biggest block to getting what we want out of life is our refusal to part with our old identities and the stories tied to them.
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Someone says I am a jock and stays stuck to the idea that that means they are not smart. They stay married to the "dumb jock" narrative.
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Another says I am an artist and struggles with money because they don't believe they can also be a good business person. They are trapped in the "starving artist" narrative.
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If who you are today is who you were five years ago ask yourself why? People are changing all around you all of the time. If you believe people can't change you probably won't, but that does not stop them.
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I am different now. My identity has changed just in the last few years. Sure, much of the old me is integrated, but there is so much new me that friends from just a few years ago no longer know me. Even my family scarcely understands the new Goddess& is often confused by her.
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Elevating your life is about refusing to settle for seeing yourself as the old you. It is about remaking your identity into the thing that gets you over there.
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One of the great comedies and insanities of the human condition is wanting change so badly while simultaneously doing and being the same thing. Get your old self out of the way!!
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You want something new then your old identity has to go. You want different relationships? It's you that needs to change first. You want different finances? Then you need to walk a different direction.
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I am no longer the struggling woman I felt I had to be. She is gone. I consciously remade her. I am no longer the old version of me , I have no use for her anymore. I have kept parts of the strong independent woman, the little girl, the athletic trainer and even the nutritionist. I have added the entrepreneur, the healer and plan to add more and more and more to my beautiful me.
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It is not fake it until you make it. It's remake it first and then be it......it's be it until you see it.
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And here is one truth that you will never be able to escape: all the world is change. Your destiny like everything else in the world is to change. Resist that and you will die on the inside long before your body does. You are always becoming unless you aren't.
Embrace the change.