Mx. Queen, LCSW, M.Ed

11/25/2025

No lazy lovers allowed.
Stop circling back.
You left for a reason.

11/25/2025

Next time you consider circling the block….

Remember this erotic affirmation:
NO lazy lovers allowed
Save this and share with the group chat.

11/22/2025

Watch as Mx. Queen, licensed clinical social work, integrative somatic s*xologist, and erotic intelligence coach discusses the spiritual bypassing, shadow work, and taking control of your healing narrative.

11/21/2025

Research shows that evidence-based s*x education gives young people the information and skills they need to grow up safe and healthy.

11/21/2025

At some point a child will become an adult who will tell their story and hopefully create their own healing narrative.

There are a lot of parents going to church but spiritually bypassing the work.

Parenting is not just a position, it’s spiritual leadership rooted in love, nurturing, and accountability.

Not everyone who can procreate can parent.

If you have experienced spiritual and religious harm, I hope you lean into protecting, nurturing, and healing your heart.

11/21/2025

10/26/2025

Similarly with our family, friend and romantic relationships, what I have learned since doing s*xuality and gender education and advocacy work is that we are using the same language but not meaning the same things.

I recently had the pleasure of speaking to the CoFounders of the Holistic S*xology Institute on their Podcast S-x is Medicine about this, how to heal from communal harm, and what repair can look like using Erospirituality.


Our present day political climate is because those who are leaders, educators, therapists, counselors, and coaches struggle with the discomfort of unlearning anti-Black racism and unwilling to consider how it IS the system that informs practices, policies, and power.

My healing work has been about moving from theory to practice that allows both professionals and survivors learn how to expand the embodied intelligence of their emotional, somatic and erotic selves with embodied safety and self-trust to navigate relationship trust, relationship building, and relationship repair.

In their book, We Will Not Cancel Ourselves, Author adrienne marie brown, shares:

“We need to flood the entire system with life-affirming principles AND practices, to clear the channels between us of the toxicity of supremacy, to heal from the harms of a legacy of devaluing some lives and needs in order to indulge others.”

From my own lived experience with my local Black communities-which are not q***r inclusive and LBGTQ+- which are supremacy rooted, I have both witnessed and experienced hurt and harm from people who I thought I was in community with and I also support others who experienced the impact of hurtful & harmful “allyship” and “comradery”.

As I have learned to be discerning in my own resourcing sharing and community building by clarifying my values, standards, and boundaries, I understand self-liberation is not solely rooted in healing from romantic relationships but all relationships we hold or held dear.

Listen to the full episode.

Link in comments.

10/17/2025

Personally and professionally- some are experiencing a type of weariness from today’s social and political climate that have activated trauma responses as protective reaponses.

Honestly, that is to be expected.

Make no mistake about it- what we are experiencing is collective trauma and it’s the third time in 10 years.

We have experienced two terms of this administration and a global pandemic.

As more governmental resources and social safety next errodes, those of us who are therapists, counselors, educators, coaches, and healers are not exempt from what are clients are experiencing.

The need to humanize our collective existence and develop our internal resources of our embodied intelligence which include emotional, somatic, and erotic intelligences is important, dare I say critical to our ability to fight for our future.

Healing is a coregulation process that requires the ability to self-regulate from a place of wholeness and the ability to connect.

Therapy, education, and coaching is a coregulation process.

Capitalism and colonialism have tried to strip us of our inherent worth with our embodied capacity for love and pleasure.

But the truth is:
✨ You have value because you exist.
✨ You are love because you are whole, pleasurably.
✨ You are already a lover, already whole, already worthy.

Self-Care Should Feel Like Soul Care.

Take care of your yourself- mind, body, spirit, and energy.

10/17/2025

There is a place in all of this chaos in which we MUST be committed to our WHOLE-Self- mind, body, spirit, & energy.
Find out how I recommend you do so erotically with pleasure zones you should not neglect.
Note: I misspoke when I said the brain was the largest when it’s the skin that’s the largest pleasure zone. The mind is the most ignored. 😉

Read full article.

Link in comment section.

10/17/2025

Earlier this week I was interviewed by the AASECT award-winning podcast, S*x is Medicine. We discussed decolonizing sacred s*xuality, Erospirituality, and what Black women do subconsciously to disempower our erotic energy.

My offerings from Healing the Erotic Self has evolved from what I share with my clients to what I share with the collective, I am grateful how this work deepens our connection with the erotic and our erotic intelligence.

Episode released soon:

https://open.spotify.com/show/1WPRjqsxC9FEHXqINVk1Z7

Podcast · Devi Ward Erickson & Alaina Salks · S*x Is Medicine REBOOT ~ The Podcast for S*xual Rebels and Spiritual Warriors!Raw, raunchy, and most of all, REAL. Hosted by Devi Ward Erickson and Alaina Salks, S*x Is Medicine is the go-to podcast for s*xual rebels and spiritual warriors. Drawing fro...

10/16/2025

5 Ways Erotic Intelligence Will Help You Fight Oppression by Creating Embodied Liberation.
Black excellence is killing (cis & trans) Black women, Black spirituality, and Black q***r folks.
Black erotic healing is needed to liberate all of us.
Using the measuring stick of yt supremacy is why liberation movements die.
Black therapists who integrate spirituality into your practices regardless of s*xuality and gender-to the front.
We will no longer neglect ourselves.
Liberation works requires the unlearning of the colonized practices of self-neglect.
My work centers Black erotic healing. Those affirming are invited to learn.
The erotic liberation self-study course, Erotic Living, is available. This is not energy healing 101, this is erotic power transformed, an ancestral remembrance.

The Other EQ: Erotic Intelligence Masterclass, in addition to, the HTES & AC Intensives are AASECT CE eligible.

Self-select accordingly.
Erospirituality.com