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Adult Foerster Care/Assisted Living Home serving the Midland and Tri-City area!

10/16/2025

💛 Happy Boss’s Day to three of the best! 💛

Today we’re celebrating the incredible leaders who keep Avielle Haven running with so much heart — Cari, Chris, and Michelle.

They juggle countless tasks every single day, yet still find time to guide, support, and care. Their dedication, patience, and leadership mean the world to the staff and residents alike.

Thank you for all the behind-the-scenes work, the encouragement, and the way you always lead by example, ladies.

Avielle Haven truly shines because of you! 💐

10/15/2025

💜Wednesday Wisdom💜

👥Creating a Caregiving Support Network👥

Caregiving is a demanding job, and you don’t have to — and shouldn’t — do it alone. Many caregivers feel isolated or hesitate to ask for help because they don’t want to be a bother or feel guilty. Building a support team is a practical and essential part of being a good caregiver.

Try this simple exercise:
- Sit down and list the five people in your life who are most important to you right now.
- For each person, briefly explain what you’re doing as a caregiver — emotionally, physically, and spiritually — so they understand the situation.
- Brainstorm specific ways they might help now and as your loved one’s needs change.

Concrete ways people can help:
- Prepare meals or organize meal deliveries
- Run errands or pick up prescriptions
- Help with household chores or yard work
- Provide respite care so you can rest
- Offer companionship, phone check-ins, or outings
- Assist with transportation, appointments, or paperwork
- Join you for an exercise class or walks to support your wellbeing

Make a list of who can help and what they can do, then have open conversations to set expectations. This planning supports both you and your loved one’s mental, physical, and spiritual health. You don’t have to do this alone — small offers of help can make a big difference.

And a huge thank you to all our special caregivers for everything, everyday.

Much love, 💗
Cari
Owner of Avielle Haven/RN

10/01/2025

💜 Wednesday Wisdom💜

Talk or Taboo! You get to decide!

Watching a spouse, sibling, or parent decline is painful. Seeing them become a shell of who they used to be feels unfair and, at times, cruel. There are no guarantees in life—and how we or our loved ones age is no exception. Like most things, we hope for the best and prepare for the worst.

Learning what end-of-life care looks like is key to preparing. Read books, watch educational videos and films, and spend time with people in different stages of aging or dementia. That exposure helps you know what to expect and what might be needed as decline progresses.

You may notice personality changes, impulsivity, less focus on grooming, and a greater focus on the present moment. The ego sometimes drifts away, revealing a beautiful, authentic person underneath. Understanding the aging and dementia processes can make it easier to reach acceptance.

I often wonder why there’s so much shame around dementia and aging. It shouldn’t be taboo. Let’s get these conversations started now so we’re better prepared when the time comes.

Much Love,
Cari, RN
Avielle Haven
Owner

09/27/2025

🌵 Cuteness alert! 🌵

Our residents had so much fun creating their very own pet cactuses! With a little paint, imagination, and plenty of giggles, these tiny “pets” came to life — no watering required!

Activities like this don’t just bring smiles, they enrich our residents’ days by encouraging creativity, connection, and laughter. 💚

09/24/2025

💜 Wednesday Wisdom💜

It’s easier not to think about the future — and that’s totally human. But planning for your golden years matters, and talking with your family about what you want at the end of life can make a huge difference.

Making health and financial choices for a loved one is full of guilt and sorrow. You may be grieving a parent’s health decline while also being responsible for their care: deciding whether they need a care home, what medical treatments or surgeries to pursue, or how to manage their finances. These are often life-and-death decisions, and they feel heavier when no one knows the person’s wishes.

I sit with families every day helping them navigate these choices. Adult children want the very best for their parents and often feel terrible about having to make decisions on their behalf — especially if there was never a conversation about preferences. That’s why I’m asking you to start those conversations now.

What to talk about:
- Values and goals: What matters most — comfort, independence, length of life, avoiding certain interventions?
- Treatment preferences: How does your loved one feel about life-sustaining treatments, resuscitation, hospitalization, or hospice care?
- Living arrangements: Would they prefer to stay at home, move to assisted living, or consider nursing care if needed?
- Financial and legal planning: Who will manage finances and medical decisions if they can’t? Have they completed an advance directive, durable power of attorney, or other documentation?

Be kind — to your loved one and to those who may need to make decisions. Encourage specific, compassionate language that releases family members from impossible guilt: clear wishes make it easier to honor them. And be realistic — not everyone dies quietly at home. The path to the end of life can include hospital stays, chronic conditions, mobility challenges, or cognitive decline, and knowing that ahead of time helps families prepare.

I don’t share this to scare you, but to help you prepare. Please have the hard conversations, write down your wishes, and consider legal and medical documents that make your preferences clear. You — and your family — will be grateful you did.

💗 -Cari
RN/Owner

09/18/2025

🐻 National Teddy Bear Day! 🐻

Last week, our residents celebrated with creativity and fun by making their very own teddy bear–themed crafts. Each colorful bear reflects the love and imagination of our wonderful residents.

Some bears have taken residence in different rooms of the house, and some are being shipped to grandchildren across the United States.

These special bears aren’t just crafts—they’re keepsakes filled with heart. 🧸

09/17/2025

💜Wednesday Wisdom💜

Watching a loved one live with memory loss can be overwhelming and heartbreaking. You don’t have to go through it alone.

After more than nine years working with older adults experiencing memory changes, I’ve learned from some of the most beautiful, authentic souls. They crave connection—especially with family—and often let go of ego to simply be themselves.

At Avielle Haven, our mission is to create a warm, supportive environment that fosters love, dignity, and community for both residents and their families. If you’re caring for someone with memory issues, reach out—support, education, and compassion are available.

Valuable tip: focus on feelings, not facts. A calm presence and a familiar routine do more than you think.

💗 -Cari
RN/Owner

09/07/2025

🌼 Happy Grandparents Day! 🌼

Today, we honor and celebrate all the incredible grandparents who fill our lives with love, wisdom, and cherished memories. 💛

This day is a wonderful reminder of the special connections that bring joy to every generation.

Wishing all grandparents a day filled with love and appreciation — today and every day!

Here are some of the beloved grandchildren and grand pets of our residents. 💐🐾

Address

2760 E Yoder Drive
Midland, MI
48640

Telephone

+19892597474

Website

http://aviellehaven.com/

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