Todd Sarner, MFT- Couples Counseling for Marin Parents

05/29/2018

04/30/2018

I studied with Stan Tatkin of The PACT Institute for several years and was just blown away by Stan's brilliant understanding of intimate love relationships, how they go wrong, and how to fix them. I finally was able to listen to his new audio book this week and it's one of the best things he's ever done. I highly recommend this to anyone who is stuck in a seemingly never-ending cycle of arguments and fighting and frustration. Stan's work can change your life for the better if you're willing to dig deep and do the work.

Rescue your relationship and reignite love with hands-on tools and real-time solutions Why do couples fight? Here’s a hint—it’s not about who puts the dishes away. “Conflicts with our primary partners are rarely about what we think they are,” teaches renowned ...

01/25/2018

This video covers a lot of the most important concepts about attachment-based couples therapy and what makes it work so well. I don't think it's all-that-well produced but if you can get past that, it holds some valuable information.

Two experts in bonding look at key responses in love relationships. Dr. Sue Johnson : http://www.drsuejohnson.com Dr. Edward Tronick : https://www.umb.edu/ac...

12/24/2017

Yes.

Dr. Sue Johnson says it beautifully. Love is a dance of meeting and parting and finding each other again.

12/21/2017

Such an important and powerful message. I find myself concentrating on these themes a lot in couples work.

11/30/2017

In years of working with couples, I have found this to be one of the most simple and profound instructions you can take to heart. If your partner is in distress, it is not the time to make them feel wrong or tell them about your distress. First, seek to understand what they are saying and how they are feeling and help them know it matters to you. It can change everything.