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Thinking Tree Massage, 204 E Capitol Drive, Ste 106, Milwaukee, WI (2026)

08/20/2021

Starting on September 20th, I will no longer have evening availability at Thinking Tree Massage. My business hours will be 10am-5pm, Monday-Friday. This means the last massage of the day will start at 4pm (if it's a 60 minute session).

I recognize this may be an inconvenience for those of you who prefer evening availability, or who have schedules that don't allow for daytime massage. If this change in my availability means you need to find a new massage therapist who has a better schedule match, I encourage you to do so and continue getting the bodywork you need! I personally recommend the work of Rachael Gonzales at Familiar (www.familiarmke.com) or Sarah McCoy at Muscle Alchemy (www.musclealchemymke.com). Rachael also has a list of recommended colleagues on her website.

If you have already have an evening appointment booked with me after September 20th, I will of course honor that appointment!

Thank you, as always, for your support of Thinking Tree Massage!

01/14/2021

It's so good to be back, y'all.
Back to bodywork.
Back to connection.
Back to community.
Back to doing what I love. 💗🌸💗
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08/24/2020

The wasps have made a home of my heart again.

I am so, SO angry.

Angry a white man with a badge can shoot a Black father 7 times in the back *in front of his children.*

Angry it’s been 161 days since Breonna Taylor was murdered in her sleep by four police officers and the case is still stalled, with no justice.

Angry that through this pandemic, mega corporations have amassed billions in revenue while small and micro businesses have closed.

Angry that Colectivo’s official response to workers’ unionizing efforts was an email outlining the negative aspects of unions.

Angry that the pandemic boost to unemployment has ended with no further assistance for those out of jobs due to A FREAKING PANDEMIC.

Angry that I have yet to receive any of the pandemic unemployment assistance I applied for 125 days ago.

Angry that polls indicate there are people who find 177,000 COVID deaths an “acceptable” loss.

Angry, angry, angry.

How appropriate, then, that MentalPaint posted this image to instagram today. I certainly feel like the dragon, ready to pour flame and watch the castle burn.

I suppose the challenge is to find ways to channel the fire to avoid destroying the village...

08/10/2020

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how billionaires shouldn’t exist. A billion dollars (let alone multiple billions of dollars) is way, WAY too much wealth for any single individual to own. A few years ago, I learned a way to conceptualize a billion as a tangible number and it completely shifted my perspective on billionaires. It’s a simple statement that packs a punch:

One million seconds is approximately 11 days. One billion seconds is 33 YEARS.

Earlier this summer, Jeff Bezos added $13,000,000,000 to his net worth - in one SINGLE DAY. 429 years worth of seconds, translated to dollars, in 24 hours. And yet...Amazon got a tax *refund* for $129 million in 2019. For 2 years in a row, the mega corporation that allows a single person to have a net worth of 198.8 billion dollars...paid $0 dollars in federal taxes.

Our country’s unemployment rate is insane right now. People are drowning in medical debt, student loan debt, credit card debt...because of a predatory system. I really like this Ted Talk about poverty and basic universal income. We’ve accepted the lie that poverty exists because of the failure of the individual. We’re so enamored with the bootstraps, american dream mythos - if we work hard enough, we could be millionaires and billionaires too! Therefore, if people are poor, it’s because they aren’t working hard enough.

Nothing - absolutely NOTHING - could be further from the truth. Some people are born into generational wealth. Our buddy Bezos got a $250,000 loan from his parents; for all that amazon “started in his parents’ garage”, it also started with a quarter million dollars the bootstrap myth conveniently leaves out. Similarly, some people are born into generational poverty; I have friends who grew up in food-insecure households where dinner was far from a guarantee.

And frankly...it pi**es me off. The wealth gap in this country (frankly, across the globe) is appalling. The pandemic has poured gasoline on the issue - the uber-wealthy have hoarded even more money; those on the edge of (or living below the poverty line) have suffered exponentially. After all, a large part of the “will schools reopen” conversation is, “what about the kids who rely on school for food and safety?”

I don’t have a clear-cut answer. The question of “how do you completely alter the existing structure of a country to make it more equitable, particularly when the system is rooted in white supremacy” is...a daunting task, to say the least. But I want to help keep the conversation going. All I know is - no one person needs billions of dollars. It’s inhumane and greedy, plain and simple.

https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=860379517791685

08/03/2020

It’s been 6 weeks since I re-opened Thinking Tree Massage. 7 weeks ago, there was a beautiful, encouraging downward trend in the percent positive COVID-19 cases here in Milwaukee (and much of the rest of the country); the key metrics I’d been watching were shifting more and more towards re-opening. It gave me the confidence to trust in the science of wearing masks to reduce the transmission of COVID-19, even when it is impossible to physically distance while giving a massage.

I then watched in horror as the numbers started to spike all over the country. New hotspots emerged and cases soared. Mask mandates were put in place all over the country (side note, I’m so grateful Governer Evers mandated a state-wide mask policy last week.) Government officials started establishing quarantine rules and restrictions for interstate travel (yep, Wisconsin is on the “you gotta quarantine” list for Cook county…).

I immediately second guessed my decision to re-open Thinking Tree. Was I contributing to the problem? As the photo I attached to this post started circulating among my facebook friends, it hit me hard. Learning to live in the risk has been a weird lesson in navigating the grey area. Even though I’ve kept the movement of my personal life limited, by virtue of the fact that I re-opened my business, I’m no longer in “safer-at-home” levels of pandemic precautions. For those of my friends who ARE still in safer-at-home mode, my actions might be contributing to the feeling of having hallucinated a pandemic. After all, every time *I* witness (via social media) one of my friends engaging in what still feels like a high-risk activity (group activities, eating at restaurants, getting on a plane) I have this immediate gut reaction of “ARE YOU NUTS THERE’S STILL A PANDEMIC!?!?” I’m sure there are those who have that reaction to *my* choice to return to work.

What I remind myself is: yes, giving a massage during the COVID-19 pandemic is a choice with risk attached...but it’s not the same level of risk as going to a bar or party or concert. I’ve made my peace with the risk of giving a massage, having put as many precautions in place as is reasonable and I trust my clients to have done the same. I’ve even decided to test the waters of doing two massages per day instead of just one! It’ll allow for a little more availability, without too much more risk. Am I nervous about it? Absolutely. Every single new risk tolerance choice I make during a friggin pandemic makes me nervous!

This grey area is profoundly uncomfortable for me, made more uncomfortable by the reality that I might be simultaneously holding the umbrella AND being one of the ones laughing. This whole mess requires nuance...and social media is a terrible place to explore nuance! The good news, at least, is that Thinking Tree Massage is a fantastic place to recharge our umbrella-holding energy.

07/27/2020

I’ve decided to become an imperfectionist.

I used to call myself a “recovering perfectionist.” It was a cheeky way to acknowledge that I’ve always had a hardcore Type A personality, that I dislike being a beginner, and that I gravitate towards things I have an “inherent knack” for. I do still like the metaphor of being a recovering perfectionist, but I also had a lightbulb moment last week:

I define my moral goodness by what I don’t do.

The pandemic world we’re living in has highlighted this brain wiring for me. I ease my “am I doing the right thing??” anxiety by listing off all the things I don’t do right now: I don’t go to bars, I don’t go to restaurants, I don’t participate in large group gatherings. I don’t, I don’t, I don’t. I have a sneaky suspicion a lot of people have this wiring - after all, we’re indoctrinated into a world where following the rules amounts to “don’t do this, don’t do that.” Being a recovering perfectionist is similar: it’s defining myself by what I’m NOT. I’m *not* a perfectionist any more. Or at least, I’m trying not to be.

What if we lived in a world where we were defined by our actions? By what we DO, not what we don’t do?

Here’s the problem for this former perfectionist: Do or do not, there is no try. As in - do it perfectly, or don’t do it at all, because trying doesn’t count. If I choose to be an imperfectionist, though - that gives my brain wiring a loophole. I CAN try, because in trying, I get a result - an imperfect result, because perfection is by and large a myth.

So here’s to actively becoming an imperfectionist!

07/20/2020

I made a promise to myself on my birthday last year that I would spend the next 365 days journaling. I borrowed Morning Pages from The Artist’s Way - the idea being that you sit down every morning for 3 handwritten pages of stream-of-conscious writing. No careful wordsmithing, no self editing, no censorship, no pausing. Just writing. Dumping out whatever’s in your head onto the page. It's a practice I've used off-and-on for the past...20?...years of keeping journals.

I’ve told myself a lot of stories over the years about my ability to make and keep healthy habits. The stories usually end with the moral of, “welp, you ALWAYS get excited about new habits, stick with it for 3 days, miss one day, and throw in the towel. Why bother trying again? You’ll just do what you always do.” (Side note, my therapist looooves calling me out on this kind of black-and-white, always/never thinking!)

So I decided to spend the past year challenging this narrative. I promised myself I would do it. That I *can* prioritize this one thing that is so good for my self-care, every day.

And you know what?

I missed 3 days.

I’m actually *more* proud of 363 days of journaling than I would have been of 366 (yay leap years!)

The first day I missed, I straight up forgot. (The other two were deliberate, intentional, "nope I don't wanna and you can't make me and that's okay" choices). I don’t remember how that first missed day got away from me (it was during safer-at-home when everything blurs together) but I do remember waking up one morning and realizing, with absolute HORROR, that I had broken my streak. I had made it 277 days and then I just...FORGOT. I had a choice, in that moment. I could throw in the towel, allow the narrative to become a self-fulfilling prophecy...or I could pick up my pen and keep going.

I went back to re-read the journal entry from that day, out of curiosity. There’s a lovely line my past-self wrote that I’ll leave you with for today’s :

“Habits are intentional choices transmuted into subconscious behavior.”

What alchemy are you undertaking?

07/13/2020

I've done a looooot of jigsaw puzzles over the past few months. Here's a collection of thoughts from them:

1. It’s a mess, but you have to start somewhere.
2. Sorting and organizing only gets you so far; eventually, you have to start trying pieces
3. No matter how much it seems like it SHOULD go there, it doesn’t. No matter how often you try. It still doesn’t fit.
4. When you find the right fit and it clicks into place, it’s the most satisfying feeling.
5. Momentum is a thing. Maybe it’s just the magic of the puzzle, but once you get a few pieces in place, more follow.
6. Walk away. I swear, the moment you come back, you’ll notice the most OBVIOUS piece of the puzzle sitting an inch away from its proper place.
7. Using the picture on the box isn’t cheating. Nothing wrong with using all available resources!
8. That being said, it’s sometimes fun to challenge yourself and go at it blind. Just don’t be (too) stubborn about it.
9. There’s no telling how long it’ll take...but the more often you come back to it, the quicker the picture takes form.
10. Take stock of your environment frequently to keep track of wayward pieces.
11. There’s inevitably that one piece that makes no logical sense. Keep trying. Different spots, different angles. Keep. Trying.
12. Savor the final piece. There’s beauty in taming chaos.
..Were you waiting for a metaphor? No metaphor...I’m just talking about jigsaw puzzles. I swear ;)

07/06/2020

Back in March, I read the book “Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants” by Robin Wall Kimmerer. I knew as soon as I finished it that it was the spark for . It’s an incredible book and I would highly recommend it to anyone who cares about the planet, global climate change, and sustainability. It also made me cry over cattails and algae, which was unexpected!

It got me thinking a lot about sustainability, consumption, and plastic. There’s no denying we’re at a critical tipping point (possibly past that tipping point) when it comes to climate change and protecting our natural world. I’ve been geeking about ways to do what I can to help since I was a kid - I still have my copy of “50 Simple Things Kids Can Do to Save The Earth.” It’s a complicated problem, though - the thing to do that’ll have the biggest impact is the thing that feels the furthest out of our hands - regulate environmental protections at the top level. Big corporations (especially when it comes to consumable goods production) are the biggest contributor to the problem. It’s too easy to throw our hands up and say, “well, my actions don’t matter when it’s Big Oil that’s the real problem!”

There are a MILLION things to focus on right now - the Black Lives Matter movement, the upcoming November election, the frickin pandemic that is picking up speed in the US at a terrifying rate, the horrifying unemployment rate (and imminent end to the extra $600/week payments), the question of what to do about schools in September, the best way to go about defunding the police...and that doesn’t even touch on any personal, day-to-day problems that crop up. So why, in the middle of all of this, am I trying to care about reducing plastic consumption and trying to shift to a more sustainable lifestyle?

Maybe it’s because it gives me something tangible to focus on, because it feels like a concrete action. Maybe it’s the natural progression of the slow-burning anti-capitalism fire that’s been building in my soul. Maybe it’s because I recognize the intersection of unchecked consumerism and modern day slave labor that plays a huge role in our world’s carbon footprint (looking at you, Amazon). Probably all of the above.

Either way, I’m so, SO excited about one of Milwaukee’s new businesses that just opened - The Glass Pantry. It’s a zero-plastic store that is an environmentalist’s heaven on earth. Cleaning products, bath products, pantry staples - they have things I didn’t know *could* be sold in bulk, like hot chocolate mix! I’m looking forward to working regular trips to The Glass Pantry into our household shopping routine. Yes, it’s inconvenient compared to a one-stop-shop like Pick’n’Save. I haven’t done a price comparison to see how price points differ, but I imagine it’s slightly more expensive than plastic-packaged alternatives. Yes, it’s definitely going to be something of an upfront investment to shift our household away from the convenience of plastic.

But it’s worth it, to me. Do I think my household is really going to make a game-changing impact on the environmental problems we’re facing? Nope. The half-dozen or so plastic shampoo/conditioner/body wash containers we go through in a year is a drop in the proverbial bucket. But I have the financial ability to make the choice to go for a plastic-free alternative. If everyone who had the ability to do so chose to do so...it would keep thousands, millions, possibly billions of plastic packages out of landfills.

One action doesn’t change much. But one action, millions of times over? That’s a movement.

07/04/2020

Sweets from and greens and radishes from , served on dishes - small biz love for our date night 😍

06/29/2020

For this week’s , I’m going to do something I very rarely ever do:
Publish a barely-edited copy of a journal entry I wrote a few weeks ago. The only editing was for clarification...and spelling :D

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I don’t really know where to start. But that’s half the problem, isn’t it? White people don’t know where to start in talking about reckoning with their whiteness. Alice’s Garden hosted a labyrinth walk to “Reckon with your whiteness.” We were given a list of statements to reflect on as we made our way to the center; a new set of statements waited for the way out.

The “way in” were essentially “I’m not racist, but…” statements.
I have said/thought “you don’t sound black”
A black man in a hoodie makes me uncomfortable
I have laughed at racist jokes
Etc

I kept the paper. I’m going to highlight every one that has/does apply to me.

There were plenty.

Honestly, the whole experience was the perfect metaphor. I’ve been walking labyrinths on and off for half of my life now. I know how they work. I know how they take you right next to the center and then reroute you away from it, over and over, until you find the center - and then take the same path out.

I’ve walked all sorts of them - flat lines printed, stones and bricks placed for elevated guides, an outdoor hedgemaze type. But I’ve never walked one of calf-high plants and flowers, only wide enough for single-file walking. There were places where the branches were trampled. Where it wasn’t clear if I was supposed to turn, or go straight. So I guessed. I think I guessed wrong a couple of times; I retraced my steps, back tracked, stood and stared in confusion.

I felt silly. Come on, I’ve been walking these for years! I’M not supposed to get lost! I’m supposed to know the route! It should be easy!

And then I recognized the feeling. It wasn’t “silly,” it was defensive. I HAD fu**ed up. I had taken the wrong turn. I had misstepped...and it was uncomfortable as f**k. It was the same feeling when [Black friend] called me out on a blanket statement about Black culture and I responded, “well, no, that’s not what I *meant*...” It was the same feeling when I realized I had completely erased [biracial friend’s] identity by lumping her in with our white friends. I was embarrassed at my own mistake.

But that’s the whole point, isn’t it? Reckoning with my whiteness means sitting with the discomfort. The discomfort of my internalized racism. Discomfort of being called out when I f**k up. Feeling silly, at best, and utterly ashamed at worst. The discomfort of knowing I have been part of the problem.

Interestingly enough, I didn’t get lost on the way back out of the labyrinth. No wrong turns. No missteps. I’m not naive enough to assume that that means once I get to the “Big Picture” center of whiteness, it’ll be easy-peasy or comfortable to find my way back out. It’s still a twisting, winding path. But I was moving with purpose and intention, taking more deliberate steps and paying more attention, instead of moving on pride-full autopilot.

I was being care-full.

***

(As a side note, in preparing to publish this, I found myself wanting to add disclaimers about soooo many of the statements I highlighted. Which means I’m STILL sitting in the discomfort, and will continue to do so...because I recognize wanting to add disclaimers is wanting to separate myself from them. To explain away my complicitness. To be absolved and protect myself. Which just goes to show...I still have work to do ;) )

06/22/2020

Reopen? Stay closed? Reopen slowly? Stay closed until there’s a vaccine? Take enough clients a month to cover operating expenses? Hope Pandemic Unemployment Assistance finally comes through to cover costs? Give up on massage therapy forever? Say f**k it and charge full steam ahead?

Welcome to my brain over the past 15 weeks, friends. The reopening question has been a lesson in analysis paralysis like no other. I am deeply committed, on personal AND professional levels, to being part of the solution in situations like this. I don’t want to contribute to the spread of a disease like COVID-19. I was drawn to massage therapy because I want to help people and because I’m committed to the health and wellness of *all* my clients, after all!

I’ll be the first to admit that I’m a risk-averse person. “Living in the risk” is hard for me; all-or-nothing binaries are much easier to follow. You either do, or do not. There is no try ;) But like it or not, our country is moving forward to live in the risk - and I’m learning to do so as well.

Two things have happened recently that are helping me make the decision to reopen Thinking Tree (with extreme caution):

The key metrics for Milwaukee have changed from 2 red (cases and testing) and 3 yellow (care, PPE, tracing) as of June 1 to 1 green (care) and 4 yellow (cases, testing, PPE, tracing) - and have stayed that way for 12 days now. This indicates that the spread of COVID-19 is slowing in Milwaukee. Not over, not stopping, but slowing down.
https://county.milwaukee.gov/EN/COVID-19 (there are tabs at the bottom - key indicators is the chart I’ve been following)

On May 25th, news broke about a hair salon in Missouri where two stylists were working while COVID-19 positive and showing symptoms. They exposed 140 people. As of June 9th, none of the exposed reported symptoms; 40 people opted to get tested and they all tested negative. Now, it’s not a perfect study - 100 people elected not to get tested, which means 70% are self-reporting. But this anecdotal evidence does support the science of wearing masks - and is allowing me to breathe a little easier.
https://www.kmov.com/news/health-department-no-clients-contracted-covid-19-from-missouri-hair-salon-where-2-stylists-tested/article_cec3c4c8-678a-5b40-bc53-30d18e6dd1f6.html

https://www.livescience.com/hair-stylists-infected-covid19-face-masks.html
Furthermore, this is incredibly encouraging for massage therapy, where physical distancing is literally impossible. Stylists and clients are inches away from each other, as are massage therapists and clients.

Science is strongly in favor of masks as the best defense against spreading COVID-19: https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2020/06/21/880832213/yes-wearing-masks-helps-heres-why

This is all to say: I will begin taking appointments at the end of the week. I’m *not* going to be charging full-steam ahead; my availability will be *significantly* reduced. I’m not going back to pre-COVID operations, so please be patient with me - and get used to the idea of wearing a mask during your massage! They WILL be required.

Because of my limited availability, I will not be accepting new clients for the time being. Those who have already worked with me, you’ll be receiving an email later today with details on how booking a massage is going to work. Thank you in advance for your understanding and cooperation - I can’t tell you how much I’m looking forward to returning to the happy green bubble!

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