10/02/2025
After a little pause for breath in September, I’m back! This month’s theme is: SHIFT.
Does this sound familiar?: Your little one is happily playing, but then the tower they’re building keeps collapsing. You can see how they had a vision that they just don’t want to let go of, but the plan they had in mind simply isn’t going to work out…
Maybe you have a school age kid and they were really looking forward to this school year - they planned to join a certain team/club or hoped to have a certain teacher or friend in their class, but then things didn’t go as they hoped. The big plan they built up in their minds didn’t come to fruition, and now they’re distraught, not sure how to move forward since reality didn’t align with their vision.
Or maybe you had an expectation of how this year (or month, or day) was going to go. But then life threw a curveball at you (or multiple). Maybe you had a certain way of being that felt comfortable and was working well, but some loss came your way and now you’re finding that you have to adjust - finding a new way of moving through life, one day at a time.
Whether it’s a seemingly minor (to us) setback like the tower of blocks falling, or you’ve suffered a bigger life-changing loss this year - all these situations are calling us to shift. To practice aparigraha (non-grasping) and let go of the plan that we sometimes are clinging so tightly to. To unclench your fist, fingers outstretched palm-up, open and willing to accept whatever comes next. It requires a shift in our perspective, to see that the problem is not the curveball that life threw at us; the problem is actually the wanting of life to be a certain way. How can we cultivate an attitude of open-hearted acceptance to whatever the universe has in store for us?
In class this month we’ll practice letting go. Finding a groove and then switching it up when we have to pivot. We’ll practice what to do if something goes “wrong” and big feelings surface, how we might shift our mood. Instead of getting stuck in our feelings, ruminating on the past, or feeling down wishing things were a different way, we’ll practice strategies to shift our mood using the breath and the body.
This month I invite you to:
💫 Literally shake things up when you’re feeling stuck, or having a hard time letting something go. Shake your hands, shake your head, shake your hips. Bounce on the trampoline, or jump up and down a few times if you don't have one. Invite your little ones to do the same.
💫 Try shifting your environment to shift your mood. Maybe stepping outside just for a moment is all you need. Perhaps allowing the wind to blow away that which is no longer serving you. Or maybe try just carrying those blocks your kid is building with (or the laptop you’ve been working on) to a different room of the house. Or probably better yet, set the block or laptop down, try a different activity for a bit, and see how things go when you come back to your project later (maybe you find you don’t even want/need to pick it back up).
💫 Try to notice your thoughts. Notice the plans and visions and expectations in your head, and remind yourself that not all thoughts are true and not all plans become reality. Allow the thoughts to come and go. Trust that if the idea or plan was a really good one that was meant to be, it’ll come back to you.
💫 Give yourself some grace (and model this for your kids). Many folks have had big changes and losses in their lives this year. On a national and global scale we know this is true as well. Remember you’re not alone, and having to shift and change is neither comfortable nor easy. I think we’re all just learning and practicing how to shift with grace, just as yoga is practice.
This month you can find me at:
🌚 Tippecanoe Library Family Yoga - Sat. Oct 11 at 10 am
🌚 Healium Yoga Together - Sun. Oct 12 at 3:30 pm
🌚*New class* Adventure Rock Kids Yoga (6 week series) - Weds 4:30 pm (Oct 8 - Nov 12), ages 6-11
And in the background I’m also:
🦋 Teaching MKE Rec Kids Yoga (all year, Mons 4:45 pm, ages 7-11)
🦋 Teaching Emoji Yogi to kindergarteners in schools through Danceworks