Lyndsey Fraser LMFT CST

01/10/2026

S*xy First Friday Episode 37: The Relationship Cycle: Episode One of our Relationship Basics Series.

Lyndsey Fraser, MA, LMFT, CST, and Sam E. Greenberg start off the year with the first episode of our Relationships Basics Series.
The Relationship Cycle consists of four phases: The infatuation phase, the disillusionment phase, The repair phase, and the romantic/connective love phase.

Each Enneagram type & instinct will respond to each phase differently and will show different strengths and weaknesses during each phase.

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S*xy First Friday Episode 37: The Relationship Cycle: Episode One of our Relationship Basics Series. Lyndsey Fraser, MA, LMFT, CST, and Sam E Greenberg start...

12/22/2025

📣 HOLIDAY PROMO- All of and I's Enneagram & S*xuality courses and pre-recorded workshops are on saie!

NOW through the end of the year!!!

✨ Have you been curious about how the Enneagram Type & Instincts show up in S*xuality? Now is a great time to learn more!!!

DM Sam or I will questions!

12/15/2025

📣 The Enneagram & S*xuality Ebook is releasing today!!!

Your s*xperts have created the definitive written guide: ALL of the Enneagram & S*xuality in one book.

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Pre-sale price will go through 12/17! Get your copy now! Link in bio or DM Sam or Lyndsey for more information!

12/07/2025

S*xy First Friday Episode 36: Year-in-review and holiday tips

Listen as Sam E Greenberg, PhD and Lyndsey Fraser, MA, LMFT, CST talk about what we were up to this last year. Including tips for the holiday season!

Workshops & Ebook:

✨ The Enneagram & S*xuality for Transformed Relationships Self Paced Course includes 5.5 CEUs for therapists, including 1 ethical and 2 cultural. Register here: https://square.link/u/J5dAf0HN

✨ Enneagram & S*xuality Ebook. Your s*xperts have created the definitive written guide: ALL of the Enneagram & S*xuality in one book! On pre-release sale now!! Order here: https://square.link/u/P4wThac1

✨ Enneagram Type & S*xuality Workshop. 2 hour pre-recorded workshop from March 2025 on Enneagram type & S*xuality. Register here: https://square.link/u/EpcThRXn

✨ Enneagram Instincts & S*xuality. 90 minute pre-recorded workshop from October 2024 on Enneagram instinct & S*xuality. Register here: https://square.link/u/Qj2OSdJf

✨ Package of Enneagram Instinct & Enneagram Type & S*xuality Pre-recorded Workshops. Two pre-recorded workshops. The Enneagram Type & S*xuality and the Enneagram Instincts & S*xuality. Register here: https://square.link/u/7CIaEihI



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S*xy First Friday Episode 36: Year-in-review and holiday tipsListen as Sam E Greenberg, PhD and Lyndsey Fraser, MA, LMFT, CST talk about what we were up to t...

11/26/2025

Black Friday Sales on Lyndsey & Sam’s Enneagram & S*xuality Workshops! November 26th-30th!!

Three workshops, including the Self Paced Enneagram & S*xuality for Transformed Relationships & a NEW Ebook releasing in December are on sale!!!

Workshops & Ebook:

✨ The Enneagram & S*xuality for Transformed Relationships Self Paced Course includes 5.5 CEUs for therapists, including 1 ethical and 2 cultural.

✨Enneagram & S*xuality Ebook. Your s*xperts have created the definitive written guide: ALL of the Enneagram & S*xuality in one book! On pre release sale now!!

✨ Enneagram Type & S*xuality Workshop. 2 hour pre-recorded workshop from March 2025 on Enneagram type & S*xuality.

✨ Enneagram Instincts & S*xuality. 90 minute pre-recorded workshop from October 2024 on Enneagram instinct & S*xuality. Register here: https://square.link/u/Qj2OSdJf

✨ Package of Enneagram Instinct & Enneagram Type & S*xuality Pre-recorded Workshops. Two pre-recorded workshops. The Enneagram Type & S*xuality and the Enneagram Instincts & S*xuality.

Don't hesitate to reach out to Sam or Lyndsey with questions at Enneagrams*xpert@gmail.com or lyndsey@lyndseyfraser.com

11/26/2025

📣 Black Friday Sales on Lyndsey & Sam’s Enneagram Workshops! November 26th-30th!!

Three workshops, including the Self Paced Enneagram & S*xuality for Transformed Relationships & a NEW Ebook releasing in December are on sale!!!

Workshops & Ebook:

✨ The Enneagram & S*xuality for Transformed Relationships Self Paced Course includes 5.5 CEUs for therapists, including 1 ethical and 2 cultural. Register here: https://square.link/u/J5dAf0HN

✨Enneagram & S*xuality Ebook. Your s*xperts have created the definitive written guide: ALL of the Enneagram & S*xuality in one book! On pre release sale now!! Order here: https://square.link/u/P4wThac1

✨ Enneagram Type & S*xuality Workshop. 2 hour pre-recorded workshop from March 2025 on Enneagram type & S*xuality. Register here: https://square.link/u/EpcThRXn

✨ Enneagram Instincts & S*xuality. 90 minute pre-recorded workshop from October 2024 on Enneagram instinct & S*xuality. Register here: https://square.link/u/Qj2OSdJf

✨ Package of Enneagram Instinct & Enneagram Type & S*xuality Pre-recorded Workshops. Two pre-recorded workshops. The Enneagram Type & S*xuality and the Enneagram Instincts & S*xuality. Register here: https://square.link/u/7CIaEihI

Don't hesitate to reach out to Sam or Lyndsey with questions at Enneagrams*xpert@gmail.com or lyndsey@lyndseyfraser.com

11/08/2025

S*xy First Friday Episode 35: S*x Positivity. Third installment of our s*xuality basics series.

Listen as Lyndsey Fraser, MA, LMFT, CST & Sam E Greenberg, PhD talk about definitions and history of s*x positivity and nuanced perspectives on the topic.

*Check out Ethical P**n for D*cks by David Ley if you want to follow up on what shared.

Don’t forget to get your CEU’s with Enneagram & S*xuality for Transformed Relationships Self-Paced course. Link here to order: https://square.link/u/J5dAf0HN

To check out Sam & Lyndsey's websites: EnneagramS*xpert.com and Lyndseyfraser.com

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S*xy First Friday Episode 35: S*x Positivity. Third installment of our s*xuality basics series.Listen as Lyndsey Fraser, MA, LMFT, CST & Sam E Greenberg, PhD...

10/31/2025

✨ do you have a therapy clinic?! ✨

Also check out the course Liora Mascal Elias is doing for therapists. This is s great beginner course for therapists that are interested in using the Enneagram in their practice. Learn how to use the Enneagram in your practice with Liora and then expand with using it s*xuality with Sam and I ❤️❤️

They pass on learnings & more in professional development programs with therapy practices & small teams. Our work together results in less turnover, higher team morale, and fewer headaches for YOU!

Here is what the Enneagram Awakening professional development program looks like:

1:1 Enneagram typing (online assessment & a structured conversation) to reveal your Enneagram number as well as your leadership strengths and blind spots

Two interactive workshops: one on the nine Enneagram types and one on our Instinctual Biases so that your team sees how they are wired (and how to work together better)

1:1 Executive leadership coaching: we’ll turn our learnings into actionable and practical steps to build psychological safety and trust, ensuring your team capable of making confident decisions together

This work results in a shared language, less friction, and a culture where people want to stay. It’s professional development that pays for itself - whether by preventing turnover, boosting morale, or simply keeping a good thing going.

3-6 month engagement | $8K-$15K investment, depending on the size of your team

Let’s create a thriving work culture (& keep your best therapists!)

DM me or email Liora@theenneagramdr.com to book a 30 minute info call!

10/31/2025

✨ today is the last day of the discounted price! ✨

Register here: https://square.link/u/J5dAf0HN

Price goes up tomorrow. DM me if have any questions!

This is for therapists, couples, and singles who want to learn more about their s*xuality. There is a professional and a personal track! Also includes a workbook!

❤️ Want to better understand your s*xual self?

❤️ Feel like your partner's approach to s*xuality?

❤️ Want to improve your communication inside and outside the bedroom?

Join and I in this pre-recorded self paced course from our workshop on Monday! Access to the course for three months to go at your own pace!

5.5 CEUs by the board of Marriage and Family Therapy, includes 1 ethical and 2 cultural. Have

10/04/2025

segsyfirstfridays Episode 34: S*xuality Basic Series Episode 2: What are the 4 Dimensions

Join Sam E. Greenberg and I as we talk about Gina Ogden's 4D model's impact on our s*xual stories, including how the types and instincts fit in.

The 4D model looks at the role of the Mental, Physical, Emotional, & Spiritual impact our s*xual lives.

Episode 34: S*xuality Basic Series Episode 2: What are the 4 DimensionsJoin and I as we talk about Gina Ogden's 4D model's imp...

09/24/2025

How do you express desire in your relationships? There are many ways to express desire in relationships.

✨ Do you feel at times you are not desired?

✨ Are you missing when your partner is letting you know?

✨ Are you expressing your desire in their language?

The Type & Instinct gives a lot of insight into how you feel desired.

Join and in our self paced course The Enneagram & S*xuality for Transformed Relationships self paced course (DM for details-pre-sale through 9/30/25).

And join us for our next on Instagram Live on 10/3 at 12pm CDT where we continue our second in our three part series on basics of s*xuality.

09/10/2025

S*xy First Friday Episode 33: What is S*xual Desire?

Join S*xperts, Sam E. Greenberg and Lyndsey Fraser, MA, LMFT, CST as they start their three part Series on S*xuality basics. This one is all about what is desire. They talk history, definitions across fields, talking spontaneous and responsive desire, and the importance of context.

Join S*xperts, Sam E Greenberg, PhD and Lyndsey Fraser, MA, LMFT, CST as they start their three part Series on S*xuality basics. This one being all about wha...