01/17/2026
“Trauma isn’t about what happened — it’s about what your nervous system held.”
So many people minimize their experiences by saying, “Other people had it worse than me.”
In this new blog post, Dylan breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions about trauma: that it only “counts” if it was extreme or life-threatening.
Trauma isn’t defined by the event itself — it’s defined by how your body and nervous system experienced it. When something felt too much, too fast, or too alone, your system adapted to survive.
Anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, emotional shutdown, chronic stress — these aren’t character flaws. They’re often signs of a nervous system that learned to stay on high alert.
If you’ve ever wondered “Why can’t I just get over this?” — this post is for you.
✨ You’re not weak. You’re not broken. Your nervous system did what it had to do to protect you.
👉 Read the full blog here: https://tinyurl.com/6tkw7jyt