06/03/2022
This a tool that I use with my clients to help them manage the build up of stress in the body throughout the day. I ask them to use this exercise each time they notice their bodies respond to stress. That may mean doing this many time s a day🤪. The sequence is key 🔑
Grounding: 🦶🌱to feel SAFE in the present moment. If you can’t get outside and put your feet in the grass just notice the weight of your feet as they press into the floor. Notice how the ground or seat beneath you is holding you up. You are rooted here in the safety of this present moment.
Breathing: 💨Now that you are grounded and safe in the present use your breath for BALANCE and CENTERING. Take a few deep breaths here. Imagine that as you take a slow exhale the stress releases with the breath. On the inhale focus on your center.
Fluid: 💧Now that you are grounded/safe in the present and also balanced and centered try to produce saliva in your mouth to turn on the digestive system (Which actually inhibits the sympathetic/fight or flight and increases relaxation). This may sound weird but try to produce saliva in your mouth to feel CALM and CONTROLLED. Try it out.
After trying these three for a period of time and you feel comfortable, bring in the imagination 🤔🔥Now that you are grounded/safe, balanced/centered, calm/controlled pull into mind an image of a calm place. A place that you associate with feeling of calm or safety.
Savor that for a few.
This tool ,developed by Elan Shapiro, is called Earth, Air, Water, and Fire. It is an awesome tool to help with regulation throughout our day when dealing with stress, anxiety, and especially in the early stages of trauma recovery.
What tools do you use to help you manage stress throughout your day?