11/20/2025
What You Can Do Instead:
1. Attend a Day of Mourning or Solidarity Gathering
Many cities now host their own events, teach-ins or community circles that center Indigenous voices.
2. Visit Local Native Communities
If you are in the Gulf South or within driving distance, come join us in Poarch for the annual powwow on Thursday and Friday. It is a vibrant reminder that Native peoples are alive, connected, joyful and still practicing all that was meant to be taken from us. Bring your family. Bring your heart. Show your children what living Indigenous culture looks like.
3. Redirect Your Resources
If you were preparing to spend money on a lavish meal, decor or travel, consider donating that instead to the Earth and Sky Collective Fund. Your contribution supports Black and Indigenous Women and Two Spirit peoples with care and dignity, rooted in community reciprocity. Give where it grows.
4. Create New Family Traditions
Make this the year you shift the story. Some ideas:
• Create an altar to honor ancestors and the Indigenous peoples of the land you live on
• Cook a meal featuring ingredients native to this region while learning their history
• Spend the day in service, mutual aid or ceremony
• Teach your children the real history in age appropriate ways
• Go outside and talk about land, stewardship and belonging
Gratitude is beautiful. But gratitude grounded in truth is transformative.
FULL BLOG: tendingfutures.org/blog