02/10/2026
Nicknames aren’t for adults to control.
They’re how children connect.
I used to be “T”… and now my niece calls me “Chong.”
Was it what I expected? Nope.
Is it meaningful? Absolutely.
Kids don’t give nicknames for no reason.
They give them because they feel safe, playful, and connected.
When we let go of expectations, we make room for real relationship.
Connection doesn’t have to sound the way we imagined it would.