03/08/2026
If your child fights bedtime, you’re definitely not alone. Bedtime struggles can be exhausting and frustrating, especially after a long day when everyone is already tired.
Often when kids resist sleep, it isn’t because they’re trying to be difficult — it’s because something deeper is going on.
Sometimes they’re simply overtired and their bodies get that “second wind.” Other times they may be craving a little more connection after a busy day, feeling unsure because bedtime routines feel unpredictable, or experiencing anxiety about separating from you for the night.
Children don’t always have the words to explain what they’re feeling, so it can come out through their behavior instead.
When we look at bedtime resistance with curiosity instead of frustration, it can help us understand what they might actually need.
All behavior is communication.
So if bedtime is a struggle tonight, take a moment to pause and ask yourself — what might your child be trying to communicate? 🤍