03/20/2026
Svako od nas treba osvijestiti ovo ponekad!! 🌿
Pospremila sam kuću, sve dovela u red. Kuhinja blista, podovi mirišu na čisto. Skuhala sam kafu i napokon sjela da odahnem. ☕✨
Muž pruži ruku, nespretno zakači šolju — kafa se razlije po stolu.
Pa kako ne paziš? — izleti iz mene, još uvijek zadihana od spremanja. Stvarno si smotan.
On samo tiho kaže:
Oprosti. 🤍
Ustane, uzme krpu, obriše sto i šuti.
A meni kroz glavu prođe jedna čudna misao. 💭
Da je to uradio neko ko je slučajno svratio, neko ko mi u životu ne znači mnogo, ja bih se samo nasmijala i rekla:
Ma nema veze, ne brinite. Lako se to obriše. 😊
I tu shvatim koliko smo ponekad nepravedni.
Svoje umore, nervoze i brige istresamo na onima koji su nam najbliži. Na onima koji nas vole, koji ostaju, koji su tu svaki dan. ❤️
A prema potpunim strancima biramo riječi, smiješimo se i pazimo da budemo ljubazni.
Kao da najviše strpljenja čuvamo za ljude koji nam najmanje znače.
A najmanje za one bez kojih ne bismo mogli.
A zapravo bi trebalo biti obrnuto. 🌸
Jer dom ne čine savršeno pospremljeni stolovi.
Dom čine ljudi kojima bismo trebali biti najnježniji. 💛
Nura Bazdulj-Hubijar ✨
Each of us needs to realize this sometimes!! 🌿
I cleaned the house, put everything in order. The kitchen shines, the floors smell clean. I made coffee and finally sat down to rest. ☕✨
The husband reaches out, clumsily hooks the cup — the coffee spills on the table.
So how are you not paying attention? — burst out of me, still panting from getting ready. You're really screwed.
He just says quietly:
Sorry. 🤍
He gets up, takes a cloth, wipes the table and is silent.
And a strange thought crossed my mind. 💭
If it was done by someone who happened to stop by, someone who doesn't mean much in my life, I would just laugh and say:
Never mind, don't worry. It's easy to wipe off. 😊
And that's when I realize how unfair we are sometimes.
We take out our fatigue, nervousness and worries on those closest to us. On those who love us, who stay, who are there every day. ❤️
And to complete strangers we choose our words, smile and make sure to be polite.
It's as if we save the most patience for the people who mean the least to us.
And least of all for those without whom we could not do it.
And actually it should be the other way around. 🌸
Because perfectly arranged tables do not make a home.
Home is made up of people to whom we should be the most tender. 💛
Nura Bazdulj-Hubijar ✨