12/23/2025
Anxiety and OCD love to live in the future. They get caught up in everything that might happen later and convince us that today’s tiny details are predicting tomorrow’s worst-case scenario.
A thought feels urgent. A sensation feels meaningful. A small mistake feels like proof. So the mind says: “Pay attention. Fix this. Prevent what’s coming.”
And suddenly, daily actions become driven by fear instead of presence. Checking. Reassuring. Replaying. Avoiding. Over-preparing. Not because you want to—but because anxiety and OCD promise that if you do enough, you can stop something bad from happening.
But here’s the truth anxiety doesn’t want you to know:
👉 Passionate, fear-driven effort doesn’t actually predict or prevent the future. It only keeps you stuck believing that certainty is possible.
Healing begins when we gently shift focus back to today—not as a test for the future,
but as a place to practice trust, flexibility, and self-compassion.
You don’t have to solve tomorrow to live today. And you don’t have to obey every anxious urge to stay safe. 💛