02/19/2026
Is this you? đź‘€
If you grew up being the responsible one, setting boundaries probably feels like you’re doing something wrong.
You set the boundary. Then spent the next three days checking your phone, wondering if they’re mad, and questioning if you should apologize.
Your therapist asks how it went and all you can think is “well... I did it, but I feel terrible about it”
That guilt doesn’t mean you did something wrong. It just means you’re doing something different.
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