02/17/2026
What you resist, persists.
I remember hearing that and back then, I thought nah, you just gotta power through it. That was a version of me that has since been shed, because I’ve also learned what you force, doesn’t flow.
The practice of presence isn’t just to quiet the mind or regulate the nervous system, it’s also to give space needed to know where you are in the journey. To recognize are you resisting, fighting, or flowing.
We often find ourselves resisting and fighting when we don’t want to let go. We cling to the familiar out of the fear of the unknown, or we force ourselves into things we think are right. Whether that’s trying to remain in something we’ve outgrown, or forcing into something we’re not ready for. Both take tremendous energy and lead to misaligned action, exhaustion, and inner turmoil.
I feel like this understanding is extremely important right now with this cosmic shift into the year of the fire horse. There is a strong metamorphosis of energy propelling the inner transformation cycle of recognizing the catalyst, allowing the shedding and releasing, honoring the growth, and rebirth into new ways of being. If we resist our fight against any part of the process, we create blocks for ourselves.
We all know busy minds love to overcomplicate. 😬
I invite you to pause. Practice stillness and presence. Give yourself more spaciousness within to really honor the path unfolding. Find that place of effortless ease, that place where the breath flows freely and the heart softens. Let that be your guide. 🙏🏼