04/24/2026
Letās chat for a minā¦real talk.
Mental illness is real & is a killer. Your traumas, hurts & ābaggageā is 100% valid. You deserve space to be felt, seen & heard.
AND, also, mental illness is not an excuse to act sh*tty.
At some point, you have to realize; I am bordering the line of self destruction.
Iām not saying you always have to be āonā. That you canāt ever make a mistake or be depressed or fall into a shame spiral. Nah, fam. Thatās all human & we honor it ALL here.
That being said, you and the people around you, deserve better. You deserve safety, peace, security, within.
AND, nobody is coming to save you. Youāve gotta be the one to look at yourself & say āthis isnāt working anymore.ā āIāve been unfair.ā āIāve hurt people.ā
Youāve gotta take accountability. Youāve gotta take responsibility. Youāve gotta stop using your excuses as reasons to be sh*tty.
I ca say all this because I, myself, have lived in victim mode my whole life.
Perceiving everything as a threat. Nothing was my fault. I donāt trust anybody, and definitely not myself.
Untilā¦Something. Shifted.
I started taking full responsibility for my actions, surrendering the control and realizing sometimes, itās just out of my hands.
& sometimes? It was COMPLETELY in my hands & I hid behind fear and abandonment issuesā¦.ironically, the whole time I was abandoning myself.
Stop making excuses. Donāt living from fear, others projections and internal pressure. It doesnāt exist. Let the walls fallā²ļø