03/04/2026
are you a stretchy stretchy girl? are your backbends crazy? ok but how are your boundaries? chances are you’re stealing from your low back to find range that isn’t necessarily true extension.
& if you’re doing that on the mat - forcing your body into shapes at expense of your own integrity and health - you’re doing it off the mat as well with soft boundaries that compromise your mental health.
so… not in my class!
in my room we create structure before opening. we are not trading spinal health for a cute shape.
this is shalabhasana. here i’m placing my legs on either side of hers and squeezing in, inviting her to press out against me. that connection grounds the pelvis and brings the hips closer to neutrality so the spine has something stable to extend from.
when she begins lifting mostly through the low back instead of through the whole spine, i give the cue we use all the time in class: don’t lose the ribs.
my hypermobile students know exactly what i mean. ribs flare, hamstrings look endlessly stretchy, but often the adductors and psoas are gripping for stability. i’ll also see that tension travel up into the pecs, neck, and scm.
so in here we build the container first.
then we explore the opening.
integrity of the spine will always matter more than aesthetics.
want to learn how to spot patterns like this and correct them in real time with your students? check out my upcoming workshops linked in the bio.