01/16/2026
💙 Diamond Willow Presents:
52 Tips for Transitioning a Loved One to Memory Care
Week Two: How to Talk with Your Loved One About Moving
One of the hardest parts of transitioning a loved one to memory care isn’t the paperwork… it’s the conversation.
If your loved one is living with dementia, it’s important to understand this truth:
Most individuals do not recognize that they need 24-hour supervision.
And it’s not because they’re being stubborn, manipulative, or “in denial.”
By the time someone requires 24-hour care, the parts of the brain responsible for insight and problem-solving are often already impacted; meaning they truly believe nothing is wrong.
So when families say:
❌ “You need more help.”
❌ “You can’t be alone anymore.”
❌ “It isn’t safe.”
…it can lead to frustration, anger, and conflict; because to them, it doesn’t match their reality.
✅ Instead, consider focusing on what feels positive and logical in their world:
• “This is your new apartment.”
• “You’ll have more people around and more to do.”
• “This place will help with meals, social time, and daily routines.”
And yes — this is where we often talk about therapeutic fibbing.
It may feel uncomfortable at first, but it’s okay to use gentle “white lies” when it comes to safety.
It can sound like:
• “The house needs repairs for a bit.”
• “The car is in the shop.”
• “Let’s stay here for a little while.”
💛 The goal isn’t to argue, correct, or force them into your reality.
The goal is to keep them calm, safe, and supported in theirs.
You’re not giving up honesty; you’re choosing compassion.
✨ Follow along each week as we share practical tips and guidance for families navigating the memory care journey.