02/15/2026
Hope you all had a good and Happy Valentine’s Day!!
Valentine’s Day.
It’s easy to think love has to be grand.
Big gestures. Flowers , Gifts
Perfect words.
Red roses and candlelight.
But the older I get,
the more I realise…
Love is much quieter than that.
It’s feeding the horses in the morning
It’s warm bread on the table.
Its taking your breakfast together
It’s someone remembering how you like your tea made,
It’s the dog waiting patiently by the stables as you take the shetlands up the field
It’s realising what you have built together
Real love isn’t loud.
It’s consistent.
Grounded.
its not flash but safe
And maybe the most important love of all
is building a life that feels kind to your own nervous system.
A life you don’t have to escape from.
A life that feels like home.
That’s love too 🤍
