As You Are Therapy

03/29/2026

Attachment Styles in action are funny. It’s rarely about the thing… it’s about what the thing means.

Once you start hearing the meaning underneath the words, everything in your relationship shifts.

What’s the “tupperware argument” in your relationship? 👀 Drop it below, I’m reading every one.

03/27/2026

TikTok didn’t ruin therapy, but it definitely oversimplified it.

You don’t need to pick a “side” of healing. You need the right support, the right fit, and the right balance.

The truth? Real progress happens when insight AND the body are both part of the work. It’s a BONUS when you actually feel safe with the person guiding you.

Don’t let the algorithm convince you your therapy “isn’t working” when you might just need a more aligned approach.

03/26/2026

03/06/2026

Your standards aren’t too high… they’re too protective. 🛡️

Perfectionism teaches us to armor up, but overprotection can block connection, joy, and growth.

Shift the lens: boundaries aren’t walls, they’re respect for your time, energy, and worth. Honor yourself first, and let others rise to meet you. 💛

03/04/2026

Hard seasons don’t mean you chose wrong.
They mean you’re being stretched.

Stay rooted in your why.
Let discipline carry you when feelings fluctuate.
The reward comes from the staying.

03/04/2026

Sometimes we don’t actually want to be left out, we want someone to chase us when we pull away.

But silence isn’t a strategy. Testing people isn’t communication, and hoping someone reads your withdrawal as “fight for me” usually ends in deeper loneliness.

Healthy connection requires clarity. If you want to feel seen, sometimes you have to risk being seen first.

Be the sower, BUT keep your boundaries.

03/04/2026

🏁 Introducing: The Reset Room
A 6-Week Group for Teen Athletes & Perfectionists (Ages 16+)

We’re excited to announce that our intern, Morgan, is launching The Reset Room. A supportive online group designed specifically for teen athletes and high-achieving perfectionists who feel the weight of pressure, performance anxiety, and constant expectations.

This 6-week group will focus on:
• Managing performance anxiety
• Building confidence and resilience
• Developing healthy coping skills for stress
• Learning how to reset mentally after setbacks

Whether you’re on the field, pool, court, stage, or in the classroom, if you struggle with self-criticism, fear of failure, or feeling like your performance defines you, this group is for you.

📅 Meets once a week for 6 weeks
💻 Online (Wednesdays; time will be determined based on group availability)
💲 $20 per session

Register here:
https://forms.gle/kepi8YDQMce876Yp8

Let’s build resilience, not just results.

02/25/2026

You love her.
But your stomach drops when her name pops up on your phone.

You rehearse conversations before they happen.
You over-explain to avoid a meltdown.
You leave interactions wondering how you became the villain… again.

When a mom or mother-in-law struggles with emotional volatility, intense reactions, or fear of abandonment, the dynamic can quietly train you to manage their feelings at the expense of your own. And over time, that looks like anxiety, resentment, guilt, and exhaustion.

Here’s the truth:
Their distress is not proof you did something wrong.
And boundaries are not betrayals.

If you’re stuck in the cycle of Trigger → Guilt → Over-functioning → Temporary Peace → Resentment… you’re not alone. But you also don’t have to keep living there.

If you’re ready to stop walking on eggshells and start responding from steadiness instead of fear, consultation calls are open.

02/12/2026

We did it again 🪄✨

Magic Occur just got a NEW building. TWICE the size 🙌🏽
More room for groups.
More space for outdoor events.
More space to hold more stories. 🤍

We can’t wait to flip this place and finally let y’all inside. Big things are coming… stay tuned. 🔑✨